Jordan Harbinger

So she goes on.

I explained that this likely highlighted something missing in his marriage and that it was something he needed to address with his wife, not with me.

I asked him to reflect honestly on what outcome he had expected and what that would have meant for both of us.

Yeah, well played, Irmana.

Kudos to you.

That's not, this must have been hella awkward.

We went our separate ways.

That evening, I told my husband everything.

He was calm, trusted me completely, and suggested that I keep some distance from Bob going forward.

On Monday, Bob sent me several messages on Teams.

No, don't do it, Bob.

I mean, he did it.

Hola, amiga.

Oh shit, I'm already making this weird, aren't I?

Yes.

I just wanted to say sorry for dropping that on you last week, and sorry if it made you uncomfortable.

Fair enough.

That might be him owning what happened and trying to make things right as best he can.

Yeah, you're right.

I might not have done that on teams, but that might have been a step in the right direction.