Joscha Bach

So we were at stage four. And so basically I find that many nerds jump straight into stage four, bypassing stage three.

Yeah, of course. Sometimes they do, not always. The question is basically, do you stay a little bit autistic or do you catch up? And I believe you can catch up. You can build this missing structure. And basically,

Yeah, of course. Sometimes they do, not always. The question is basically, do you stay a little bit autistic or do you catch up? And I believe you can catch up. You can build this missing structure. And basically,

Yeah, of course. Sometimes they do, not always. The question is basically, do you stay a little bit autistic or do you catch up? And I believe you can catch up. You can build this missing structure. And basically,

basically experience yourself as part of a group learn intuitive empathy and develop the sense this percept perceptual sense of feeling what other people feel and before that i could only basically feel this when i was deeply in love with somebody and succinct or so there's a lot of friction to feeling that way like it take to only with certain people as opposed to it comes naturally yeah it's frictionless but um this is something that basically later i felt started to resolve itself for me to a large degree what was the trick

basically experience yourself as part of a group learn intuitive empathy and develop the sense this percept perceptual sense of feeling what other people feel and before that i could only basically feel this when i was deeply in love with somebody and succinct or so there's a lot of friction to feeling that way like it take to only with certain people as opposed to it comes naturally yeah it's frictionless but um this is something that basically later i felt started to resolve itself for me to a large degree what was the trick

basically experience yourself as part of a group learn intuitive empathy and develop the sense this percept perceptual sense of feeling what other people feel and before that i could only basically feel this when i was deeply in love with somebody and succinct or so there's a lot of friction to feeling that way like it take to only with certain people as opposed to it comes naturally yeah it's frictionless but um this is something that basically later i felt started to resolve itself for me to a large degree what was the trick

In many ways, growing up and paying attention. Meditation did help. I had some very crucial experiences in getting close to people, building connections, cuddling a lot in my student years.

In many ways, growing up and paying attention. Meditation did help. I had some very crucial experiences in getting close to people, building connections, cuddling a lot in my student years.

In many ways, growing up and paying attention. Meditation did help. I had some very crucial experiences in getting close to people, building connections, cuddling a lot in my student years.

loving other people and being loved by other people and building a space in which you can be safe and can experiment and touch a lot and be close to somebody a lot. And over time, basically at some point you realize, oh, it's no longer... that I feel locked out, but I feel connected and I experience where somebody else is at.

loving other people and being loved by other people and building a space in which you can be safe and can experiment and touch a lot and be close to somebody a lot. And over time, basically at some point you realize, oh, it's no longer... that I feel locked out, but I feel connected and I experience where somebody else is at.

loving other people and being loved by other people and building a space in which you can be safe and can experiment and touch a lot and be close to somebody a lot. And over time, basically at some point you realize, oh, it's no longer... that I feel locked out, but I feel connected and I experience where somebody else is at.

And normally my mind is racing very fast at a high frequency, so it's not always working like this. Sometimes it works better, sometimes it works less. But I also don't see this as a pressure. It's interesting to observe myself, which frequency I'm at and at which mode somebody else is at.

And normally my mind is racing very fast at a high frequency, so it's not always working like this. Sometimes it works better, sometimes it works less. But I also don't see this as a pressure. It's interesting to observe myself, which frequency I'm at and at which mode somebody else is at.

And normally my mind is racing very fast at a high frequency, so it's not always working like this. Sometimes it works better, sometimes it works less. But I also don't see this as a pressure. It's interesting to observe myself, which frequency I'm at and at which mode somebody else is at.

At stage five, you discover how identity is constructed. You realize that your values are not terminal, but they are instrumental to achieving a world that you like and aesthetics that you prefer. And the more you understand this, the more you get agency over how your identity is constructed. And you realize that identity and interpersonal interaction is a costume.

At stage five, you discover how identity is constructed. You realize that your values are not terminal, but they are instrumental to achieving a world that you like and aesthetics that you prefer. And the more you understand this, the more you get agency over how your identity is constructed. And you realize that identity and interpersonal interaction is a costume.

At stage five, you discover how identity is constructed. You realize that your values are not terminal, but they are instrumental to achieving a world that you like and aesthetics that you prefer. And the more you understand this, the more you get agency over how your identity is constructed. And you realize that identity and interpersonal interaction is a costume.

And you should be able to have agency over that costume. It's useful to be a costume. It tells something to others and allows to interface in roles. But being locked into this is a big limitation.