Joseph Nguyen
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So there's something about us as people who are high functioning. We just have to keep busy. We can't slow down. When we are still, we feel empty and restless. And we don't take the time to process that pain. Instead, we just do more. Like you knew, I'm not your provider, I'm not treating you, but you're saying you knew. that you should be slowing down. But what did you do instead?
So there's something about us as people who are high functioning. We just have to keep busy. We can't slow down. When we are still, we feel empty and restless. And we don't take the time to process that pain. Instead, we just do more. Like you knew, I'm not your provider, I'm not treating you, but you're saying you knew. that you should be slowing down. But what did you do instead?
You kept going. You kept adding more to the pile, right? And it's important to make that distinction. Again, if it's true burnout, you go on a vacation, you take a leave, it should get better. You shouldn't be looking for more to do when you leave. But people who are functioning, they can't relax. They continue to add more. They can't slow down. They're running from something.
You kept going. You kept adding more to the pile, right? And it's important to make that distinction. Again, if it's true burnout, you go on a vacation, you take a leave, it should get better. You shouldn't be looking for more to do when you leave. But people who are functioning, they can't relax. They continue to add more. They can't slow down. They're running from something.
You kept going. You kept adding more to the pile, right? And it's important to make that distinction. Again, if it's true burnout, you go on a vacation, you take a leave, it should get better. You shouldn't be looking for more to do when you leave. But people who are functioning, they can't relax. They continue to add more. They can't slow down. They're running from something.
But the tools to look for are when you're still, do you feel restless? When you're not busy, do you feel empty? Do you find that things that you used to enjoy just don't give you that same spark anymore? For example, you're eating your favorite meal and you're just like shoving it in your mouth just to give yourself some calories and energy, not to savor it.
But the tools to look for are when you're still, do you feel restless? When you're not busy, do you feel empty? Do you find that things that you used to enjoy just don't give you that same spark anymore? For example, you're eating your favorite meal and you're just like shoving it in your mouth just to give yourself some calories and energy, not to savor it.
But the tools to look for are when you're still, do you feel restless? When you're not busy, do you feel empty? Do you find that things that you used to enjoy just don't give you that same spark anymore? For example, you're eating your favorite meal and you're just like shoving it in your mouth just to give yourself some calories and energy, not to savor it.
When you're looking at art or something that you used to find beautiful and breathtaking, you're just not as appreciative of it. When you're with people that you love, you're not engaged, you're not present. These are all signs that you should not ignore. They're not crisis, right? They're not something that's going to bring you to the ER.
When you're looking at art or something that you used to find beautiful and breathtaking, you're just not as appreciative of it. When you're with people that you love, you're not engaged, you're not present. These are all signs that you should not ignore. They're not crisis, right? They're not something that's going to bring you to the ER.
When you're looking at art or something that you used to find beautiful and breathtaking, you're just not as appreciative of it. When you're with people that you love, you're not engaged, you're not present. These are all signs that you should not ignore. They're not crisis, right? They're not something that's going to bring you to the ER.
But again, they're important because these are the things that make life worth living. These are the simple joys in life. Resting is a joy. If you want to argue with me, look at any baby, right? They can sleep and they love their sleep. Why? It is a joyful thing. Not being stressed and overwhelmed. That is joy.
But again, they're important because these are the things that make life worth living. These are the simple joys in life. Resting is a joy. If you want to argue with me, look at any baby, right? They can sleep and they love their sleep. Why? It is a joyful thing. Not being stressed and overwhelmed. That is joy.
But again, they're important because these are the things that make life worth living. These are the simple joys in life. Resting is a joy. If you want to argue with me, look at any baby, right? They can sleep and they love their sleep. Why? It is a joyful thing. Not being stressed and overwhelmed. That is joy.
And when people say that, they're like, oh, well, isn't there a difference between anxiety and depression? Well, in the research, when we do the rating scales, being relaxed and not stressed is actually a point of joy that is measured in depression. eating a meal and savoring it, that's a point of joy that's measured in depression. All of these things are points of joy.
And when people say that, they're like, oh, well, isn't there a difference between anxiety and depression? Well, in the research, when we do the rating scales, being relaxed and not stressed is actually a point of joy that is measured in depression. eating a meal and savoring it, that's a point of joy that's measured in depression. All of these things are points of joy.
And when people say that, they're like, oh, well, isn't there a difference between anxiety and depression? Well, in the research, when we do the rating scales, being relaxed and not stressed is actually a point of joy that is measured in depression. eating a meal and savoring it, that's a point of joy that's measured in depression. All of these things are points of joy.
But when we think about happiness outside of research, it's always, okay, I'll be happy when I become the CIO. I'll be happy when I'm Forbes 50 under 50 or something like that, or whatever it is they do these days. I'll be happy when I get the job or the partner or the house and the kids.
But when we think about happiness outside of research, it's always, okay, I'll be happy when I become the CIO. I'll be happy when I'm Forbes 50 under 50 or something like that, or whatever it is they do these days. I'll be happy when I get the job or the partner or the house and the kids.
But when we think about happiness outside of research, it's always, okay, I'll be happy when I become the CIO. I'll be happy when I'm Forbes 50 under 50 or something like that, or whatever it is they do these days. I'll be happy when I get the job or the partner or the house and the kids.