Joseph

With you or with her?

Well, a little bit of both now, I would say.

So this all stems back, excuse me.

So I took a job in 2015.

I was one of the first employees at a tech company, nationwide tech company.

Um, and obviously being the first employee, you, you know, there's a little sweat equity that you, you put in, right.

So a little, a lot, yeah, a lot, a lot of sweat, sweat actually.

So, so 10 years later, I've got some good equity in the company.

I feel like I personally, I feel like I make a good salary, um, and I'm taking care of obvious, not as well as, as, as I would like.

Right.

But everybody wants to make more money.

Um, and yeah,

when I took the job, I did not consult with my wife.

Um, so I know what that was.

And we've worked through that and talked through that.

I've apologized and have done a lot of work on myself over the last 10 years.

I'm being open and communicating and it's us.

Right.

Um, and now that where we're at now, where, you know, finances are really tight kids, all the kids are in school, you know, full-time first, third and seventh grade.

Like, Hey babe,