Joy Kahn
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And so I think without forgiveness, it makes gratitude something that's more of a platitude. It's something that we just say, but our heart is closed, right? So we're trying, we're trying to get past it. We're trying to bypass the forgiveness, but forgiveness is the key that opens the heart again and says, you're okay now. What happened was difficult. It was true. It was real.
And so I think without forgiveness, it makes gratitude something that's more of a platitude. It's something that we just say, but our heart is closed, right? So we're trying, we're trying to get past it. We're trying to bypass the forgiveness, but forgiveness is the key that opens the heart again and says, you're okay now. What happened was difficult. It was true. It was real.
And so I think without forgiveness, it makes gratitude something that's more of a platitude. It's something that we just say, but our heart is closed, right? So we're trying, we're trying to get past it. We're trying to bypass the forgiveness, but forgiveness is the key that opens the heart again and says, you're okay now. What happened was difficult. It was true. It was real.
You were potentially the victim of something, you know, in this case, maybe horrendous or horrific, but you're also okay right now because you have an opportunity to heal and to move forward. So it's never about letting anybody off the hook, which we talk about a lot.
You were potentially the victim of something, you know, in this case, maybe horrendous or horrific, but you're also okay right now because you have an opportunity to heal and to move forward. So it's never about letting anybody off the hook, which we talk about a lot.
You were potentially the victim of something, you know, in this case, maybe horrendous or horrific, but you're also okay right now because you have an opportunity to heal and to move forward. So it's never about letting anybody off the hook, which we talk about a lot.
As you're saying that, I can just feel it because this is such a deep part of I think all of the work, whether it's ours or anyone holding space, that for us, acceptance has become a powerful way for us to accept the change is actually happening.
As you're saying that, I can just feel it because this is such a deep part of I think all of the work, whether it's ours or anyone holding space, that for us, acceptance has become a powerful way for us to accept the change is actually happening.
As you're saying that, I can just feel it because this is such a deep part of I think all of the work, whether it's ours or anyone holding space, that for us, acceptance has become a powerful way for us to accept the change is actually happening.
So I think when we get to that place where navigating the healing journey, we've had an experience that we are in the process of moving through forgiveness. We're finding peace with, we're wanting to accept, right? Like you said, without proving that, you know, I have to somehow rewrite the story.
So I think when we get to that place where navigating the healing journey, we've had an experience that we are in the process of moving through forgiveness. We're finding peace with, we're wanting to accept, right? Like you said, without proving that, you know, I have to somehow rewrite the story.
So I think when we get to that place where navigating the healing journey, we've had an experience that we are in the process of moving through forgiveness. We're finding peace with, we're wanting to accept, right? Like you said, without proving that, you know, I have to somehow rewrite the story.
I think that can be a place that people get stuck is I have to now reframe the story in a way that makes it different than what it was. And acceptance is really about it happened just as I see it. It happened exactly like that. And I don't have to love it, but it occurred differently. And now it means because I can reflect on it, it's changing.
I think that can be a place that people get stuck is I have to now reframe the story in a way that makes it different than what it was. And acceptance is really about it happened just as I see it. It happened exactly like that. And I don't have to love it, but it occurred differently. And now it means because I can reflect on it, it's changing.
I think that can be a place that people get stuck is I have to now reframe the story in a way that makes it different than what it was. And acceptance is really about it happened just as I see it. It happened exactly like that. And I don't have to love it, but it occurred differently. And now it means because I can reflect on it, it's changing.
And so then it creates an opportunity to bring in the relationship with love and say, I'm going to fall in love with the change that moves me through this and into whatever is next. But we then can embrace this relationship with change as the true nature of acceptance, because acceptance is that I'm willing to change. I'm willing to be changed. I'm willing to
And so then it creates an opportunity to bring in the relationship with love and say, I'm going to fall in love with the change that moves me through this and into whatever is next. But we then can embrace this relationship with change as the true nature of acceptance, because acceptance is that I'm willing to change. I'm willing to be changed. I'm willing to
And so then it creates an opportunity to bring in the relationship with love and say, I'm going to fall in love with the change that moves me through this and into whatever is next. But we then can embrace this relationship with change as the true nature of acceptance, because acceptance is that I'm willing to change. I'm willing to be changed. I'm willing to
Have the divine move through me and change these circumstances, these experiences. So for me, and as we work with our clients, we have been focused on, can you accept that this was temporary? It has moved through your experience and it was what it was. And can we feel deeply any of the grief that sits here with you in this moment? Yes.
Have the divine move through me and change these circumstances, these experiences. So for me, and as we work with our clients, we have been focused on, can you accept that this was temporary? It has moved through your experience and it was what it was. And can we feel deeply any of the grief that sits here with you in this moment? Yes.