JR Ridinger

And I think, you know, even in the fog of grief, my mind is clear enough to say, I know what I need to do. I still got to do the hardest things first.

And I think, you know, even in the fog of grief, my mind is clear enough to say, I know what I need to do. I still got to do the hardest things first.

And I think, you know, even in the fog of grief, my mind is clear enough to say, I know what I need to do. I still got to do the hardest things first.

I still need to believe that I'm possible. I still need to believe that our best days are still ahead. When at first somebody told me that I was like, that's impossible. My best days are behind me.

I still need to believe that I'm possible. I still need to believe that our best days are still ahead. When at first somebody told me that I was like, that's impossible. My best days are behind me.

I still need to believe that I'm possible. I still need to believe that our best days are still ahead. When at first somebody told me that I was like, that's impossible. My best days are behind me.

But there are still the best days of Lauren still ahead. And it took me a while to figure that out and accept that and be okay with that and embrace that. That doesn't mean I don't miss Jer every moment of my day, don't wish he wasn't with me. But in order to succeed... I have to show people it's possible and I'm rebuilding me again.

But there are still the best days of Lauren still ahead. And it took me a while to figure that out and accept that and be okay with that and embrace that. That doesn't mean I don't miss Jer every moment of my day, don't wish he wasn't with me. But in order to succeed... I have to show people it's possible and I'm rebuilding me again.

But there are still the best days of Lauren still ahead. And it took me a while to figure that out and accept that and be okay with that and embrace that. That doesn't mean I don't miss Jer every moment of my day, don't wish he wasn't with me. But in order to succeed... I have to show people it's possible and I'm rebuilding me again.

And I think that when you're doing that with people and you're very vulnerable and very transparent about the process of where I've been and where I'm going and how painful it's been and that we can recover if we're transparent, life can change for you in a positive way. And I'm learning that now.

And I think that when you're doing that with people and you're very vulnerable and very transparent about the process of where I've been and where I'm going and how painful it's been and that we can recover if we're transparent, life can change for you in a positive way. And I'm learning that now.

And I think that when you're doing that with people and you're very vulnerable and very transparent about the process of where I've been and where I'm going and how painful it's been and that we can recover if we're transparent, life can change for you in a positive way. And I'm learning that now.

Exactly. People get so comfortable being uncomfortable. It's like, are you kidding me? Do you not realize that in order to get uncomfortable, you've got to step one foot out of the box that you're in. That's all you have to do. They think it's monumental. So they don't want to do it rather than like, like sitting in front of the TV is comfortable and doing nothing and not changing.

Exactly. People get so comfortable being uncomfortable. It's like, are you kidding me? Do you not realize that in order to get uncomfortable, you've got to step one foot out of the box that you're in. That's all you have to do. They think it's monumental. So they don't want to do it rather than like, like sitting in front of the TV is comfortable and doing nothing and not changing.

Exactly. People get so comfortable being uncomfortable. It's like, are you kidding me? Do you not realize that in order to get uncomfortable, you've got to step one foot out of the box that you're in. That's all you have to do. They think it's monumental. So they don't want to do it rather than like, like sitting in front of the TV is comfortable and doing nothing and not changing.

But what they don't realize is they're actually uncomfortable. They're living a life of discomfort. They're not able to make ends meet. They're struggling to pay the bills. They're not happy. They don't work on their marriage at home. Jared and I had a really happy life because we constantly worked at being good partners. We had a good marriage. We had good communication.

But what they don't realize is they're actually uncomfortable. They're living a life of discomfort. They're not able to make ends meet. They're struggling to pay the bills. They're not happy. They don't work on their marriage at home. Jared and I had a really happy life because we constantly worked at being good partners. We had a good marriage. We had good communication.

But what they don't realize is they're actually uncomfortable. They're living a life of discomfort. They're not able to make ends meet. They're struggling to pay the bills. They're not happy. They don't work on their marriage at home. Jared and I had a really happy life because we constantly worked at being good partners. We had a good marriage. We had good communication.

Jared used to say, what do we do every six months? We analyzed our marriage.

Jared used to say, what do we do every six months? We analyzed our marriage.