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I'm doing okay. It's a little bit warmer here today, finally, so it's nice to have a break from the cold. Excellent, man. What's going on, brother? Um, okay. So my question long, like windy, twisty question. So I'm just going to jump into it. Um, how much of my past and my struggles do I need to like tell my daughter later in life? Or does that like cause problems for her growing up?

I'm doing okay. It's a little bit warmer here today, finally, so it's nice to have a break from the cold. Excellent, man. What's going on, brother? Um, okay. So my question long, like windy, twisty question. So I'm just going to jump into it. Um, how much of my past and my struggles do I need to like tell my daughter later in life? Or does that like cause problems for her growing up?

I'm doing okay. It's a little bit warmer here today, finally, so it's nice to have a break from the cold. Excellent, man. What's going on, brother? Um, okay. So my question long, like windy, twisty question. So I'm just going to jump into it. Um, how much of my past and my struggles do I need to like tell my daughter later in life? Or does that like cause problems for her growing up?

So my daughter and I are kind of butting heads. She's three. How old are you?

So my daughter and I are kind of butting heads. She's three. How old are you?

So my daughter and I are kind of butting heads. She's three. How old are you?

Which is what I've heard, and we've come up with the phrase, she's a three-nager, and it's wonderful.

Which is what I've heard, and we've come up with the phrase, she's a three-nager, and it's wonderful.

Which is what I've heard, and we've come up with the phrase, she's a three-nager, and it's wonderful.

Yeah. And I'm, I'm learning through that, especially with like what I've been working through the past couple of years. Um, so if you're good with it, I'll just let it rip, dude. Let it rip. Tiny story. Okay. Um, struggling with addiction, um, came to a head two years ago, well, two and a half years ago with an affair. Um, and yours or hers in January? Mine.

Yeah. And I'm, I'm learning through that, especially with like what I've been working through the past couple of years. Um, so if you're good with it, I'll just let it rip, dude. Let it rip. Tiny story. Okay. Um, struggling with addiction, um, came to a head two years ago, well, two and a half years ago with an affair. Um, and yours or hers in January? Mine.

Yeah. And I'm, I'm learning through that, especially with like what I've been working through the past couple of years. Um, so if you're good with it, I'll just let it rip, dude. Let it rip. Tiny story. Okay. Um, struggling with addiction, um, came to a head two years ago, well, two and a half years ago with an affair. Um, and yours or hers in January? Mine.

I told my wife two years ago in January and we've been on the recovery journey. She's been through a lot of intensive counseling. So have I like, and we separated for two months in 2023, then separated for six months last year because we were just bandaid fixing and not actually fixing the root issues. Um, we got back together summer of last year and, um,

I told my wife two years ago in January and we've been on the recovery journey. She's been through a lot of intensive counseling. So have I like, and we separated for two months in 2023, then separated for six months last year because we were just bandaid fixing and not actually fixing the root issues. Um, we got back together summer of last year and, um,

I told my wife two years ago in January and we've been on the recovery journey. She's been through a lot of intensive counseling. So have I like, and we separated for two months in 2023, then separated for six months last year because we were just bandaid fixing and not actually fixing the root issues. Um, we got back together summer of last year and, um,

realizing like my daughters and my relationship is like, it's okay. It's good. But like, there are times where it's like, I'm getting frustrated with her. She wants mom more than me. She wants like, she won't listen to anything I say, even if I'm saying it calmly and kindly, she won't listen to me until my wife says, Hey, what did dad say? And listen to dad. And then she'll listen.

realizing like my daughters and my relationship is like, it's okay. It's good. But like, there are times where it's like, I'm getting frustrated with her. She wants mom more than me. She wants like, she won't listen to anything I say, even if I'm saying it calmly and kindly, she won't listen to me until my wife says, Hey, what did dad say? And listen to dad. And then she'll listen.

realizing like my daughters and my relationship is like, it's okay. It's good. But like, there are times where it's like, I'm getting frustrated with her. She wants mom more than me. She wants like, she won't listen to anything I say, even if I'm saying it calmly and kindly, she won't listen to me until my wife says, Hey, what did dad say? And listen to dad. And then she'll listen.

Um, so I don't know if like totally development. Okay. There's nothing wrong with your daughter. Okay. So that's not like, I haven't really screwed her up with the separation.

Um, so I don't know if like totally development. Okay. There's nothing wrong with your daughter. Okay. So that's not like, I haven't really screwed her up with the separation.