Jubal

Yeah.

You tried to reach out to her, yeah, a couple times? Yeah, no, it's just silence, dead silence. It's definitely ghosting. The only thing you can think of is maybe she got offended?

Yeah, that is really weird. Interesting. Okay.

I have only one time, but it was a double date where my friend's girlfriend had set me up. And the girl that she had set me up with, she was not a fan of me and then started arguing with me. So then I started arguing back a little bit and then I was like, I'm just going to go home. But that was very obvious what the problem was.

I mean, on my end, the problem was she's arguing with me. I don't know what her problem with me was, but I have things that it could be problems for people. So but I understood that. And I also didn't want her to call me. So I'm being ghosted. But other than that, no, I have not really left in the middle of a date before.

Well, let's figure it out. We will play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she'll tell us why you're getting ghosted and maybe get you another date if you want one. All right, man? Please. Yeah, that'd be great. Play a song, come back, get your first date follow-up next.

Dave is on the phone for a first date follow-up. If you missed us talking to him just a few minutes ago, he went out with a woman named Carissa and he's getting ghosted and now we're about to call her and see if we can figure out why and maybe get him another date. Before we call her, Dave, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Carissa?

Okay. So weird. That is weird. All right. Well, here we go.

Hi, may I speak to Carissa, please?

Carissa, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show called The Jubal Show.

So there's three people on the phone with you right now. How are you?

That's a good question.

Well, you might have. I'll tell you how we got your number, though, first, and then we can figure out if you want something or not. So we do a segment on the show and it's called the first date follow up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, that person can have us call you and ask why. So you're currently ghosting someone.

They wanted us to get a hold of you.

His name is Dave. Dave.

Okay. So you liked Dave's jokes and stuff.

He did tell us that.

What? Oh, what?

I know. I like art galleries and everything else you just described I like, too.

And you know what? Which one was it?

Yeah, I'm hearing.

Yes, it is. He's on the phone. Who was it? Sorry, Chris. I should have told you that. Dave is on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Dave is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Carissa. So we'll see if we can help him out. Dave, what's up, man? How are you? Hey, hey, what's up? Yeah. How long has it been since you saw Carissa? Like a week.

It's okay. It's going to hot. If her ex was a guy, would you feel the same way?

Do I sound like I'd feel the same way? No.

Carissa, would you like to go on another date with Dave? We'll pay for it. He obviously doesn't mind that you hooked up with your ex in the car on the same date you were on.

All right.

Okay.

You guys sound like you're made for each other, honestly. I think this is a match made in heaven, for sure.

I just can't give up. Well, congratulations, Dave. You got another date. And, Carissa, you also got a date.

Yeah, three days might not necessarily be a full ghost yet, you know?

Then maybe, yeah, if he read a text and then hasn't responded in three days, then... That's infuriating.

OK, well, tell us about the date.

Yeah. Did it seem like it bothered him?

So how do you know that he was trying to hook up other than that he was a dude on a date?

Okay. And did he seem bothered by that when you, you know, smacked his hand away and said that?

If that is the reason, would you want another date? Cause you know, I've been, you know, when I used to date, I'm married now, but when I would go on dates and stuff and if ever I got, get away from the equator, it's too hot there for you right now. I would be fine with it. You know, like I never threw a fit, but I've heard about a lot of dudes, especially like they get upset and I've never cared.

I've been like, okay, that's cool. We can wait till later, you know? So if he got upset about that, would you want another date?

Yeah, that's true.

Well, we'll try to figure it out for you. Okay. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and get you another date if you still want one. Okay. All right.

Thank you. Play a song, come back, get your first date, follow up next.

If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up, Kristen is on the phone and she's not getting a call back from a dude named Garrett. So we're going to see if we can figure out why she's getting ghosted and maybe get her another date when we call him in just a second. But before we do that, Kristen, remind everybody about your date and why you think you're getting ghosted.

It's only been three days, so you might not be getting ghosted, but you probably are since he read a text and didn't respond. We'll call him right now. OK, you ready?

All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Garrett, please? This is Tim. Garrett, how are you? My name is Jubal, and I host a radio show called The Jubal Show.

So there's three people on the phone with you right now. How are you? I'm good. What are you guys calling for? We're calling because we got an email about you from somebody who listens to the show. An email about me? About what? We do a segment on the show called The First Date Follow-Up.

That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, that person can email us to call you and figure out why you're ghosting them. So you went out with someone and now you're not calling them back and they want to know what happened.

All right. Well, let's see if we can help you out. You went to a concert together.

Kristen, right? Yes. So she emailed us and said that she really liked you, but you're not getting back to her. She wants to know what's up.

Okay, so that's why you're ghosting her, though, because it didn't end with a bang.

She thought maybe that the reason you weren't calling back was because, you know, you wanted to hook up and she wasn't into it that night.

Well, thanks for being honest, man. I appreciate it. Now I'll be honest with you. Kristen is actually on the phone. She's been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you.

Kristen is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and she's getting ghosted by Garrett. So we're going to see if we can figure out why and maybe get her another date if she still wants one. Kristen, what's up? How are you?

What would he say to you that would make you feel better about the situation if that's all he wanted?

Like, that's kind of wild. I don't know if you want another date, but I'll ask anyway. Garrett, would you like to go on another date with Kristen? We'll pay for it.

Yeah. Are you saying that you want to go out with him again still? Of course.

That's cute.

Okay. All right. I mean, I'm taking this as a successful first day follow-up. Kristen, I think you have another date, or I'm not sure. And Garrett, thank you for your time.

Not too bad. Before we ask about your dating stuff, how long has it been since you heard from Garrett?

It's time to catch a cheater.

Only on The Jubal Show. Carla is on the phone today for To Catch a Cheater. She's been with her husband, Bruce, for eight years total. They've been married for two years, but now she thinks something might be going on. I'm sorry, Carla. Hopefully we can help you out, though. Why do you think Bruce is cheating?

And hopefully also you.

Yes. No.

It's a website for finding some very specific interests.

Okay.

Okay.

I mean, definitely. I would probably think the same thing.

So what's the big deal? We'll see if we can figure it out for you. You already told us what grocery store you guys are rewards card members at. So we will play a song, come back, and then call him, pretend to be from the grocery store, and say that he's this month's big winner.

of 36 long-stemmed red roses to be delivered to anybody that he wants, and we'll see if he sends those to you or to somebody else, okay?

Yeah. Hopefully not, but we'll see. We'll play a song, come back, get your TKT cheater next.

What turns me on is when a man sends me money. Like, I feel the moisture between my legs when a man sends me money. I'm like, oh, my God, it's go time. You actually sent it? Mm.

Right in the middle of today's To Catch a Cheater, if you're just joining us, Carla is on the phone and she thinks that her husband of two years named Bruce might be messing around.

So we're about to call him and pretend to be from the grocery store that their rewards card member's at and say that every single month we choose one rewards card member at random who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department. We'll see if he sends those to Carla or if he sends them to someone else, specifically somebody named Madeline.

Before we do that, Carla, why don't you refresh everybody's memory on your situation?

All right. Are you ready for us to call him?

Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, this is Torval calling from ******. I was looking for a rewards card member named Bruce ******. Speaking. Bruce, please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call. I'm calling to tell you congratulations. Thank you for shopping with us. You're this month's big winner. Oh, that's cool.

Well, I don't know if you've seen the signs in the store, but every single month we choose one rewards card member, totally random, to say thank you very much for shopping with us by giving you free flowers delivered from our floral department. Anywhere in the United States, 36 long stem red roses, a box of candy, and a card to be delivered to anybody that you want absolutely free.

Oh, wow, okay, awesome. If you have time right now and you know the person already that you would send them to, I can take the information down in just a matter of minutes. I'm prepared to do that right now. No, I can just do it over the phone. Great. Ready? Oh, you know it right now? Yeah. Perfect. All I need from you first is the first and last name of the person.

Yeah, you're going to make it out to Crystal... Perfect. Is there anything that you would like to put on a card to Crystal...

Great. And just so you know, this can be done same day delivery based on the time now, too. So if you're talking about tonight, tonight, this should be there before 6 o'clock guaranteed. That's perfect. Thank you. Yeah, I'll also let you know that that is not the truth at all. And my name is Jubal. This is actually a radio show called The Jubal Show.

And your wife is actually on the phone.

Hunter is on the phone today for a first date follow-up and he's getting ghosted by Jamie. So, we're going to find out his story and then give her a call and see if we can figure out why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. Hunter, how long has it been since you heard from Jamie?

I think you're you, Hunter.

You'll find somebody who's just as nerdy as you are, I guess. Maybe it was her. It could have been, maybe.

Me too.

Yeah.

That would be great. Keep hope alive, Hunter. So we're about to call her. We're going to play a song, come back, and then call her and see if she tells us why she's ghosting you and then maybe get you another date, okay? Okay. All right. Play a song, come back, get your first date following next.

We're in the middle of your first day of follow-up. If you're just joining us, Hunter is on the phone, and Hunter is getting ghosted by Jamie. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him another date if he still wants one after he hears the reason. But before we do that, Hunter, why don't you remind everybody of your date with Jamie?

That would be cool. That would be ironic. It'd be cool if she swoops down in a spaceship and picks you up and then you guys can go hang out. I just got a visual. That's so funny.

That would be alienating.

All right, Hunter. Ready for us to call her? Yeah. Okay, I'm going to call her. Here we go. I'm going to call her right now.

Hi, may I speak to Jamie, please?

Jamie, how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

What's going on today? Not much. Just chilling. How about you?

Well, we're calling you today because we got an email about you from one of our listeners. What? Okay, that's odd, but let's hear it out. We do a segment called the First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with someone and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about you from Hunter.

Well, he really liked you and he's wondering why you're not calling him back.

You don't feel like you got a chance to talk about the things that you know about? It was only him talking about the things he knows about.

Jamie, I will let you know that Hunter is actually on the phone listening and he wants to talk to you.

Well, I do have to ask the question. Jamie, would you like to go on another date with Hunter? We'll pay for it. No, I'm good. Thanks, but no.

I don't either. We'll just make sure we do that.

You're welcome.

So was he funny online too?

That's good. I feel like that doesn't happen that often. I feel like some people are hilarious over text, but then they kind of get nervous when they're in person, you know?

It is a big letdown because you show up and you're ready for a show. I'm like, dinner and a show. You make me laugh. They don't do that. Can you just text with me then? Because you were hilarious when you were texting.

And the date was good?

How did the date end?

So you got a kiss on the cheek, okay.

I think that that might not be it. That sounds like a fine date unless he's really against cake or cocktails.

And then that's also a red flag for you.

Because if he's caring about how much cake you eat. But we'll figure it out. We'll play a song, come back, and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date if you still want one, okay?

Get your first date follow-up next.

If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Raquel is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jake. So we're about to see if we can get him on the phone and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date if she's still interested after she hears why. But before we call him, Raquel, why don't you catch everybody up on the situation with Jake.

Okay. Well, we'll see if we can help you out. We're going to call him right now and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and see if you want another date. Okay. Ready? Yes.

All right, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Jake, please? This is Jake. Jake, how are you? My name is Jubal and I host a radio show and it's named The Jubal Show.

I'm also on the show. Yes, she is.

She's also on the show. Okay.

We do a segment on our show called The First Date Follow-Up. That's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you end up ghosting them, they can email us to get you on the phone and find out why. And we got an email about you from someone, Jake.

and would you like to take a guess at who that person is?

It is Raquel, yes. So Raquel told us about your date. She said she really liked you, but she can't figure out why you're ghosting her, so that's why we're here.

Jake, that's Raquel. She was on the phone listening. She's on the phone listening and wants to talk to you.

Raquel is on the phone today for a first date follow up and she's getting ghosted by a dude named Jake. Why is it always a Jake though? I don't know. I'm not sure if it's a State Farm guy or not. If he had a red polo, that's probably him and probably because he's very busy. Raquel, how long has it been since you heard from Jake?

Well, Jake, since you think Raquel seems like a nice person... Would you like to try again and go out on another date with Raquel? We'll pay for it.

I'm down. Wow. Yay. Congratulations, Raquel.

Be yourself.

Jake, you be yourself as well. I think you do. Yes, I will. And I'm going to be somebody different. I'll see you on your date, though. I'm going to be somebody weird. Look behind the bushes. Yeah, that'll be me.

Natalie is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted by Ben. So we're going to talk to her and then in a few minutes call Ben and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But first, Natalie, how long has it been since you heard from Ben?

Just a couple days? Are you sure you're getting ghosted?

He was different when you were on the date or like at a certain point he got different.

Oh, like, he was, oh, oh, I see.

I mean, did anything happen on the date that was awkward or could be a reason that you're getting ghosted?

How?

Okay, the newlyweds part might have done it. Yeah. We should go to Greece and pretend to be married. I like you. Yeah, I could see how that would, you know.

Yeah. Well, we'll see if we can figure it out for you. We'll play a song, come back and then call him and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you and maybe get you another date. Okay.

All right. We'll play a song, come back and get your first day follow up next. If you're just joining us for today's first date follow up, Natalie is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Ben. So we're about to call him and see if he'll tell us why she's ghosting him, even though we might know why. Not sure. Natalie, before we call him, why don't you kind of recap what you told us?

Okay, so that might have been the thing.

And that's the only thing you can think of.

Joel's reaction was polarized by it. All right, well, let's see. Are you ready for us to call him?

Okay, here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Ben, please?

Hey, Ben, how are you? This is a radio show. It's called The Jubal Show.

And I'm Jubal.

Yeah. Have you ever listened to the show before? Yeah, I have actually. I don't know if you've heard a first date follow-up before, but that's where if you go out on a date with somebody and then you ghost them, that person can email us to get you on the phone and ask why you're ghosting them. So that's why we're calling you today, Ben. You're ghosting somebody, and they're very confused.

Yes, it is Natalie. Is it because she wanted to go to Greece and get married?

Uh, I mean, no, we talked to her and she, she was worried that the reason you're ghosting her might be because she made a joke about like coming to Greece with her on a trip she has planned and you guys could pretend to be newlyweds and stuff. Is that not why?

Okay. All right. That's good.

Do you mind telling us why you're ghosting her then?

Oh, okay. Did you know that before you went to the restaurant?

Yeah, that's probably better. It was awkward, you know? Awkward for you guys, but that's the reason you're ghosting her.

Yeah. All right, Ben. Well, thank you for being honest with us. And now, um, I have to be honest with you. Natalie is actually on the phone listening and wants to talk to you. Really?

Yep.

Really?

So you kind of lied to us, Natalie.

Oh, yeah, you made out with me in front of the restaurant. That's right.

This took a turn. Would you like another date with Natalie? We'll pay for it. I don't think that's a good idea.

Well, I don't know if you got an answer, Natalie. Yeah. But you accomplished what you wanted to do. Okay. All right.

Race each other and then drink some Prosecco.

Yeah, that could be, you know.

Did you try to play it off at all? You know, like, whoa, there's a weird tree around here. It smells weird.

Probably.

Just for one toot? No. But if they were doing it repeatedly, you know, then maybe. Yeah.

Flustered by the first one. It could have been a rampage of toots. You don't know. I know. Well, then I could see the ghosting. All right, man. Well, we'll try to figure it out for you, okay? I appreciate it. We'll play a song, come back, and then call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and maybe get you another date. Thank you, guys. Yeah, man. Get your first date follow-up next.

If you're just joining us for today's first date follow-up, Aaron is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Lila. So we're about to call her and see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and hopefully get him another date because he definitely wants to see her again. Before we do that though, Aaron, why don't you refresh everybody's memory about your date with Lila?

Now you say a little. It makes it sound like you did it a bunch. You said it was just one time.

But you weren't like throwing it in her face. Not literally.

Yeah. Funny. All right. Well, let's see what it is. We're about to call her. Are you ready?

Here we go. Hello? Hi, may I speak to Lila, please?

Hey, Lila, how are you? My name is Jubal from a radio show that's called The Jubal Show.

Have you ever listened to the show before?

Oh, sweet. Well, we love you. So, hey, Lila, are you ghosting anybody?

Yeah, so you know how we do the segment, the first date follow-up, where if you're ghosting someone, they can email us to get you on the phone and ask you about it?

His name is Aaron.

He said it's been about two weeks. He said two weeks, about two weeks since you guys went on your date.

Okay.

He was talking about other women, going out with other women on your date? Yeah.

Yeah. How did that come up?

Yeah, there are guys that will talk about other women on dates because they think it's going to make you want them more.

Lila, thank you for telling us about, thank you for being honest with us about why you're ghosting him. And I don't know if you remember or not, but Aaron has been listening this whole time and wants to talk to you.

You know he farted. Aaron, she knows you farted. I knew she heard that. I knew it.

Aaron is on the phone today for a first date follow-up, and he's getting ghosted by Lila. So in a few minutes, we're going to call her, see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him, and maybe get him another date if he still wants one. Aaron, before we talk about your date, how long has it been since you heard from Lila?

Do you not believe him?

All right, so do you believe him then, Lila?

Would you like to go on another date with Aaron? We'll pay for it.