Jules
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Podcast Appearances
I like this because I've seen, I've been understanding the effects it has, not your kids being on screen time, your kids seeing you on your screen.
I understand you should not be on your screen that much in front of your kids.
However, we're human.
There are times when parents are just going to check their phone in front of their kids.
Where, where I even gravitate towards this though, in general is it means parents are thinking about it.
Like parents are love it.
Parents are understanding it's harmful for my kids to always see me on my phone.
So let's make a book to disrupt that.
I'm in on that school of thought.
But where I think it's, where I don't like it is what we've learned is, especially at a very pivotal age, right, between one and three, I think, your kids start to feed you cues.
And they're nonverbal cues sometimes.
Like a lot of times Tate will do this.
I was making eggs the other day and she was giving me more on the grapes.
They were sliced grapes.
If I missed the more, she'd go, ah, ah.
And so I'd look at her and then she would do it for me.
Right.
So she was trying to get my attention.
I think when you're on your phone, if you're reading a book, if you're distracted in general, sometimes you miss the cues.
What we've learned when you hit the cue, they build confidence.