Julie Menanno

if we could start communicating in a way where we're feeling more heard and seen and understood and just instead of just calling being called a whatever you know radical feminist or red pillar or whatever i think it would help you know kind of balance some of that out i mean what i found with working with couples extensively is when i can get the communication cleaned up many of the symptoms just start to really resolve on their own

Definitely, for sure.

I have, yes.

How long?

I started working with couples in 2012.

Wow.

Yeah.

Yeah.

You know, I always am looking kind of under the surface.

Yeah.

at the emotional stuff going on, which is very, very consistent.

So not really.

I see different ways that it manifests in different topics, but I don't, you know, we're really, when I'm working with a couple, I'm working with kind of the same couple over and over because what's going on under the surface emotionally and attach from an attachment perspective is just so human and universal.

Absolutely.

Okay.

That's terrible.

I'm so sorry that someone calls you a gaslighter because that's disregarding your emotions.

Yeah.

But I guess.

I think gaslighting has a very like deliberateness to it to me.