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She's a teacher and she's rightfully tired, but she spends the whole evening sleeping from like eight o'clock to 1130 when I go to bed.
And then she gets out of bed when I go to bed.
And then I sleep the night and she's up.
On the crazy days, she'll go back to bed when I wake up.
And it's this weird dynamic where we're just trading off in the bed.
And obviously, she does go to bed sometimes at 3, 4, 5 in the morning.
And I'll wake up next to her.
But I know she's so sleep-deprived.
I mean, I don't wake her up, right?
You get out of bed like a ninja.
I don't know how she does it, honestly.
But I just feel like I'm losing her.
I mean, and the other element of the whole thing is that she does not want to be touched.
hugs and, and intimacy and anything to do with, with physical contact is just out of the, out of the picture.
Like it just does not happen.
I, well, since, since our, our seven year old was born was when I really noticed it.
where it was like, just don't touch me, don't touch me.