Kail Lowry

So that was another reason.

The third reason is that in the state of Delaware, they want there to be –

first and foremost, 50-50 where it's possible.

And then second is it's nearly impossible to try to relocate a parent because they prefer 50-50.

And when a parent relocates, the one that stays in Delaware is considered the more responsible one or whatever.

And so I was never going to have...

The ability, like no judge was going to let me move if I requested it the right, if I went about it the right way and filed the paperwork for relocation and things like that.

At the time, Javi and I, Javi was still in Delaware.

Now, the fact that Javi is now not in Delaware and Chris is not in Delaware and Elliot is 16.

I still don't honestly think that the judge would let me go simply because Chris and Javi have moved out.

They need one parent to remain basically like the anchor of stability for the kids.

And I'm using the word stability lightly because I do think Javi's home is stable.

So I'm not saying that he's not stable.

But I think just in terms of like moving a child out of the state and away from everything that they knew, I just recognize that.

And the amount of money and time I've spent in family court that the judge is not going to let me go anyway.

So I have not filed.

Now, with that being said, I have played with the idea of.

basically waiting until Lincoln is in high school and then trying to relocate because of the dynamic between Chris and myself.

And then with Lincoln, you know, maybe once he's older and in high school and able to decide, I feel like I might be able to relocate, but that would also be contingent on my relationship dynamic with Elijah at the time.

So we'll cross that bridge when we get there.