Kate Langbroek

Oh, you want one?

Yeah.

You know, it's interesting because I think you said that marriage is maybe not good for women.

No.

Really, you've really compressed it or experienced a lot in that two years.

You know, that reminds me of a girlfriend of mine who had a,

brutal divorce.

She said one of the worst things that she experienced was that when friends would hear she was getting divorced, they were like, they started talking about how much they hated their husbands.

And she said it was just like suddenly they felt like they had an outlet.

Permission to say it.

Yeah, permission.

And she said at that period it was the worst thing because what she actually needed was to believe in

Romantic love.

Not to have everyone go, I wish I was you.

And as she said also, she hadn't done anything magical.

She was going through something really difficult.

And so they also had the capacity to.

She's like, why are you telling me this and not addressing it with the person that you're so happy to slag off to me?

Yeah.

In the nature of a relationship, though...