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Kate Murphy

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674 total appearances

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10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

I mean, we really are a composite of our social patterns.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

interactions, these synchronies, these vibrations that occur within our bodies.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

I mean, it does, I agree with you.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

It does sort of sound like, well, this is getting kind of woo-woo.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And it does, but unless you start looking at all of these studies and looking at the actual clinical science where they have people hooked up to all these machines and you're like, oh my God, their brain waves are exactly the same right now.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

How did that happen?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

We don't know, but it's happening.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

I agree with you because I'm not advocating one way or another, but it's fascinating to contemplate.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Yes, actually.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

We did not talk about how when people do synchronized activities, behaviors, how it builds these feelings of affinity and rapport.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

People are more likely to share information.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

They're more likely to be helpful and kind.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

There's abundant research showing that.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And if you think about it, just going back historically,

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

how people bonded, how people came together was by doing synchronized activities.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And that would be religion, where people bow, sing, pray, recite prayers at the same time.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Think about the military, people marching in sync.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

And it develops this sense of camaraderie that's built in.

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Again, the research is, well, why is that?

10% Happier with Dan Harris
How to Click With Anyone, Read Every Room, and Stop Absorbing Other People's Stress | Kate Murphy

Don't really know, but the thinking is that