Kate

Kill them with kindness?

Yes.

I do not take that method.

You tell them what you appreciate about them.

Then you say, hey, here's how I'm feeling.

Here's what I think you're doing wrong.

Follow it up with something else good and then allow them to respond.

The worst possible thing you can do is say you're a horrible human being.

You suck.

You're trash.

And just tell them every single bad thing about themselves and then walk away and not give them a chance to respond or become a better person.

I was not compliment sandwiched.

And that's why I'm saying that.

Kate, I literally think that about any girl who's Harper's age who walks in the door and talks to Harper.

We're like, oh, look at them.

I mean, that is a really good cup, though.

I can imagine, like, it's because it's a circle.

I had this girl one time.

She's, like, very into, like...

crystals and aura and colors and stuff and she was telling everyone I had like I don't even remember the color we'll just pretend it's purple she was like she has such a purple aura around her and I was like okay that's cool whatever that means and then