Kathy Kay

Do you know what I'm saying?

And I'm always sort of very super impressed with people that have more balls than me.

I'm somebody that overthinks a lot, right?

So when I talk to a girl who's gone to a swinger club alone or somebody that's done these crazy... I'm always kind of like, wow, I wish I could not think so much and just do crazy shit like that because my mind sometimes makes me not as fun as I'd want to be.

So I admire a lot of people on my show who

for sort of really like living their fucking lives.

And it's made me sort of realize that, oh, I would do way more things than I would.

I still would never go to like a swinger club alone or do anything like that, to be completely honest.

But I would do all the things, a lot of the things that my college has said, like I realized I was a cuck queen from doing my show and I get off on that.

I realized that I would even be in the hot wifing thing.

I would always say that I wasn't, but then like one of my guys, the one guy that I sleep with now told me that he would be into me being with somebody else

at the same time, and I was like, oh, the minute he said it, I was turned on by that, and I never knew that.

First of all, I never knew half of these things existed before my show, so my shot has completely changed me, but it's not like, the weird thing about my show is I didn't set out to do a sex show, but it wasn't like I was some vanilla person.

anybody that knew me, like if people that knew me in my 20s and don't know me now found out, oh, Kathy has a sex podcast, they'd be like, oh, of course.

Because I was always somebody that was very open and very sexual and very into sex and talking about it and into it and open.

But I wasn't that crazy, but I was just very open-minded to it and very outwardly so, right?

So it's not a mistake that I wound up doing this for a living, but I still haven't done anything like what people have done on my show.

And

That's stuff that I would do with the next guy I dated.

Like I would definitely put that on the table early on to make sure this would be somebody that would be down for some fun.