Kathy Kay

Now, did you have any kind of secret fantasies?

I know that porn was against your religion, but did you like watch it on the DL at all?

Nope.

Yes.

Yes.

And you weren't in touch with any kind of fantasies or anything like that.

Were you horny?

You mean towards the end when you started to think you were going to be free and maybe you were coming into your own?

yes yes yeah that makes sense with your age too because I think your 20s are all about trying to like figure out who the fuck you are and what you're about and stuff and that's probably what was going on and like so you know by the time you divorce him you're like around 30 years old and you're probably like a very different person than you were when you married him yes yes I was very much so so did you leave him yes it was all me

And was it because he was controlling and stuff?

Did you catch him cheating?

Was there any one thing or it just wasn't working out for the whole time?

And so it was very, you know, I was- It's a hard decision to make because you don't want to, and plus you don't want to like ruin your kid's life by leaving their father, right?

At the end of the day, it's still like their dad, right?

But you just didn't feel it.

So I think it's very brave of you to make that decision considering it's hard because it's hard.

It is hard.

Yes, it is.

So you leave, you guys get divorced.

And like, what, like, did you have like a crazy time that you went out and started like exploring your sexuality at all?