Kay Poyer
Appearances
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I'm getting off the train late at night. I will take my shoes off, already crazy, and then do this like crab walk and laugh the whole way back gig.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
If they don't say TikTok right away or at any point in your career, because I feel like now it's kind of different. But was there like a point in time where if they wouldn't say TikTok, they'd be like, I know you from somewhere. Yeah. Would you be coy and be like, maybe we met at a party or something? Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Is that what you think it is?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, at that point I would have dropped the bet really fast. I would have been like, you know me from your phone.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, don't play with me like that. That's despicable.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
That's crazy. I'm a huge fan. It's like a Sphinx riddle. Like, what is that? Why do that?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, well, life before this, just, like, you know how you always have periods where all the bad shit happens at once?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, it could have been so quick. Right. And I would have done a picture. I'll sign your boobs, whatever you want to do. Like, I don't care. It's okay. Get to it.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
right right what have i told you this video in particular then what crazy it's crazy you get stuff like that um like this stuff that's meant to be it's meant to be a compliment it's meant to be yes right and i'm gonna look at the camera when i say this please do because i want them to know i'm being genuine i appreciate the effort right but sometimes y'all draw me And it's a little upsetting.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, you've been drawn.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, and you know what? I mean, truly the sidewalk parted. Like the Red Sea.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And it's.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I feel like – because here's – I will say this. I had one interaction. It was actually really similar to – it was getting my name wrong, mixing it with someone else.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Right. All at once. It comes in threes. Yeah. Or ten. Right. Whatever. And that's kind of where I was at, and it was... Yeah. All of that personal stuff, you know, like, I don't know, just anything you can think of, you can name it. It was there. And then COVID happened. And so I was no longer like talking to my dad. My mom passed away and I'm like living on my friend's couch.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I'm sure you know. And it was at a bar. Yeah. And I also, like, did kind of work it out with this girl because it pissed me off. But we're at this karaoke bar, like, in my town. Right. And I normally don't even go to any of those bars. I like actually going to Dallas. Yeah. But – I'm like a little drunk. And she, I found out later, was drunk.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And her and her friend walk up and they stand right in front of me and they go, are you Blizzy McGuire? And I was like. No. Yeah, no. And then they kept insisting that I was. And then I was – I think what I really said – it was bad. I was like, you need to get out of here. Like, it was quick.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I blacked out, and I remember the finger flick. And I –
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I don't know. Like I'll definitely be a bitch about things all the time at the drop of a hat. Right. That's also one of those things where I'm like, I don't know. Like, you know, I mean me in particular, most people, if they see me at all, they see me for like two seconds a day. Right. So I'm like, I don't know. I can't really blame you. Yeah. Same, same.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And then we get locked down. Her and I are drinking. What are those things? The Smirnoff Ice Rocket Pot flavor. Okay. We would drink those every day in finger paint for the entire lockdown. And I was like, well, I don't have any money, so I don't have anything to do. Yeah. And I started posting on TikTok. Period. Yeah. I just, I guess, got addicted to it. I don't know.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
But I think it's, it's mostly when it's like you for yourself, like, okay, you call me Blizzy McGuire. I know exactly what the commonality is.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, Well, I remembered what I said to her, but it was actually really bad. I don't know if you can keep it on here.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I looked at her and I said, wrong tranny.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
crazy i will say this funny straight guy into shy girl what's up with that hey um i have a couple follow-up questions i i do actually come back let's talk about this no wait can i ask please do men ever come up to you and like try to start things with you yeah like in public
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Get her.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
The expectation is through the floor.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, yeah. Well, because they're like the elders of the Internet. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, who would? Nobody wants to. Please.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Zip that up.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Four years later, I'm still posting every day. That sucks.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And he's getting on it. Right. Tipsy.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
What does that have to do with you being on the roller coaster at the same time?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, yeah. That's that sounds like an even worse idea. Hey, let me not just talk shit to this girl. Let me do it in front of her jacked boyfriend.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I will tell you that is, like, the number one thing. I can be so nervous. And I don't know that this is a good thing, actually. I'm going to say this out loud and I'm going to realize that this is a problem. But I can be nervous about anything in front of an audience, whatever. If one person starts a legitimate problem, that, like, the spite will pull me right through. Me too.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And the switch comes on. You're so me. Same.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
No, for sure.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
That's always the approach that I hear. I had a friend. She, when I was living in New York for a little bit, she was up in Harlem. I was in Brooklyn.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And you know, she would like have to walk back to her and men like, men in New York will just truly say anything to you every step of the way. Right. Welcome to the Big Apple, whatever. And she tells me, she was like, oh, yeah, well, if I am getting off the train late at night, I will take my shoes off, already crazy, and then do this, like, crab walk and laugh the whole way back.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I was like, you're... Full of shit. And she did it. She ran, like, two blocks ahead of me and then came back through the whole gig.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, and you know what? I mean, truly, the sidewalk parted. Like, the Red Sea. Like, it was... It was efficient.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I feel like so many times it's like, I don't, I don't. know what the expectation is because I don't remember who it was and I don't I would not recommend this either but it was some girl who like she is walking around she's got a camera on her and she gets cat called and she turns around and she goes yeah come fuck me like just crazy and he got so scared he ran away and I'm like
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Well, I will say the place that fired me, they fired me for kind of like a little bit being a bitch and they were right. You know, I look back in time and I'm like, yeah, I was not good.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Nobody should. Don't. Nobody should ever do that. That is a terrible idea.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I think the crab walk is really. I mean, and it's a workout. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Inner thigh. Something. I do not work out. I'll tell you that now.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Shay, I would expect.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Right, right, right.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
You know what I will say? What? I thought I would have assumed Trixie and Katya were both short and I've seen them. I've seen their live show in person and I still like would have been like, no, they're tiny.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yes. Scraping the ceiling.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. And I'll take that. That's fine.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Absolutely. It feels good. Yeah. It used to, I used to not like it as much, but then I was just like, I don't know. It's funny. Me too.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Like, what the fuck? Like, I think that chicken is cooked. For sure.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Something. Something.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I will tell you, there is nothing that could ever make that worth it for me.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Just stay 5'3". Just stay 5'3". Yeah. 5'7 is not going to fix your problems.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Plus, I feel like short guys who just are not pissy about it. I say that all the time. That's the ticket.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And it's not even that. It's like, they're cute. Like y'all are cute. I don't know why you're so angry right now, but it just happens. Like, and five, eight, I'm like, uh, most people are like five, eight. Yeah. And I should know that. Cause I'm up here all the time. Like, I don't know why you're pissed about five, eight and saying six foot.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I doubt it.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Okay. I'm curious. I'm going to find some wood to knock on later. Just bookmark that. You can knock on your forehead. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But no. Oh, that's good. I'm so glad. I really don't. I never have.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Well, I feel like there's some kind of...
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
curse in the air the few people who have like really made it a point the endings on the internet for them have been catastrophic and have had nothing to do with me had nothing to do with me yeah and i have sat back and watched it a couple times and it's never you know people are allowed to feel however they want yeah and like you want to call me like a bitch or something else like oh girl get in line you know get truly get in line i could sell tickets for that i could sell popcorn i could sell t-shirts yeah one thing we can agree on is that that's true
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And that I almost feel like I don't really consider hate. Same. Yeah. Because there, you know, I mean that word, like I, there was some British publication that like described me as bitchy and it was like a term of endearment. And I was like, whatever, I'll take that. Yeah. But. Yeah, I don't know.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
A lot of them, they just like disappear into the void. I know, that's mine too. And I forget about them too. People will mention it to me and I'm like, I might have lied about that. I might have let that show up. I don't know.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I feel like the internet has genuinely treated me really nicely, especially for, like, a trans girl. Or for, you know, for anyone who is not, like, a cis straight white woman doing cooking videos. Totally. Like, they are waiting for a reason to clap you like crazy.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. For real. Everybody is always... Praying on it. Yeah, and I've seen it happen with so many other girls to where... somebody can absolutely fuck up online or in their personal life. Yeah. And people can have feelings about that, but it comes to a point with a lot of the reactions where you know that this is the, I always knew she was awful.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I see the way you live your life. You are not psychic. If you were, it would be better.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Truly. You're using it for the wrong shit. What are you doing?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, there's a couple girls who get behind that camera. Not all of them tell the truth.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
you know and i just i don't know i also yeah i mean a lot of the hate about myself i've seen is truly people being on twitter willing to just say she's annoying and i don't like her and that i'm like that's fine like i don't and the amount of times i've said that too i'm like that's fair if you feel that way no truly like that's your opinion because annoying is genuinely not a crime you know what i mean like like actually it's not illegal again i'm not going to the glue factory for that
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I don't like looking at their face. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Absolutely. Absolutely. I do remember that one, though, because I remember every single thing I found in those bags. The needles, all that. It was a nightmare. Right. By the time I got fired, I was like, you know what? This is for the better. This is truly... The healthiest thing for our relationship. Is that I never come here again. Never see any of you again. And I did also get scammed.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And you know, I mean, for me, it's like... I don't know. Like, I don't even think everybody... Like, you don't need to fucking explain. I don't need any of y'all to think about why. Like, if you do not like my shit, that's fine. I don't know who you are. Right. You know what I mean? You don't know who I am. Yeah. But... It's none of my business, quite frankly. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
The few times someone has tried to drop, like, a hot tank about me and I've responded to it, it's been nasty. Yeah. And then the few times I haven't responded to it, things have just gotten nasty for them later. So, truly... you know, either I can take care of it or God will.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And all of a sudden.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I think. There is, like, a type of person who, in a technical sense, is really dedicated to content creation. Yeah. And, like, will absolutely put in the time, will edit their stuff, will get the equipment, will sit in front of a camera for hours and hours and hours. Yeah. But they're not funny and they're not that smart.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And so those are the people who I think get really caught up in, like – Really baby like video openers and all that kind of shit. And there's nothing after. But the problem is like it works so well.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. I don't know what it is. I think people are addicted to their phones.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I think... There is just all I mean, like literally with any kind of like, you know, you just spend so much time that like the rush kind of gets less and less. And they turn on the people they like or they I don't I actually I don't know what it is.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
But I saw that take. I want you to know I know exactly what and who you're talking about. And I saw that. And I absolutely the friends only got dumped on. like dumped on because I will see and I will say this I will see people particularly try to cloak their their takes and their feelings in that like very faux social justice speak girl don't I fucking know it and be like
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I was 19 at this time. Yeah. And I got scammed. I had a customer come in with two identical...
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
This is, again, another moment where I wish y'all would just be comfortable talking your shit openly. That's what I said.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Like, okay.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I cannot fix that. I actually cannot fix that.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Now what? Where do we go from here? We both think the other one is ugly.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, we're bonding.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
clearly fake Gucci jackets yeah and he was like well I want to sell these I was like we don't take designer and he was like would you just give me 60 bucks for it and I ran to the bank and got 60 dollars by the way also hated the jacket it was so ugly but I was like I'm gonna sell this to the real real yeah and then I was like shouts out the real real yeah oh yeah um Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
No, they think that they are Beowulf slaying the creature. Like David and Goliath, bitch. Yeah, I just ripped Grendel's arm off. No one else has done it before. No, I saw that. I saw because I like I keep up. Yeah, it's like. I don't keep up as in I will just find girls fighting and not know what's going on.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
But I saw that and I was like, oh, Drew's a racist. And then I see what they're talking about. I'm like, we have to stop doing this clown shit. Yeah. Like every two months.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
But they leave that off.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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Because it's the clickbait. It's the clickbait that gets people watching.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
No, it gets diabolical. The way people will do that when they feel cornered. I'm like, why? Like, you wanted to fight with me so bad. And then when I went below the belt, like, now it's a problem.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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Yeah. Fuck you.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And then it just sat in my closet because I was like, oh, this is so obviously fake. Yeah. What are you doing?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
yeah no my mom you ever you know there's like a type of short woman that like emanates an energy field right like kind of a threatening vibe that's my mom yes you should meet her my mom's five three yeah and there's something it gets compacted you know and they can like I don't know. It's some kind of like psychic defense mechanism.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, no. One. I got one for $60.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I came home from school one time and I guess our laundry room door had gotten stuck behind her and she barefooted. She's probably 5'2". She was 5'2". She just put her back against the dryer and kicked a hole through the door until she could crawl out of it. And she would just do shit like that all the time. I was like, you're like... the scariest person I've ever met. You know what I mean?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Yeah. Love that job, though. Right.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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All of them. I don't want to work.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I don't want to do a day job. I feel that. I don't think I will ever like it. I finally, at one point, I got into the office. So many girls are like, the office is going to save me. Like, that's going to be what does it, is I'm going to get in the office.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Now we're done.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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Yeah. She's got a 51% share in this company.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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Give me that. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. It's actually crazy. Like, especially this past year, just the way things have worked out. Yeah. Like I've kind of picked up a lot of places that I feel like she kind of left off. She used to make YouTube videos. Really? Yeah, she was fully, like, a YouTuber.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, and I went back and watched her videos, and she'd have, like, a little ironic t-shirt and her Bayonetta glasses on in, like, 2009. I was like, oh, she was, like, an actual bad bitch. And I just did not know at the time. I was like, mom, your glasses are so lame. They weren't.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yes. Right. Yeah, and she, you know, she was a writer. Yeah. She...
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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And I'm going to be happy. Right. Never wanted to shave my head and run around a parking lot more. Like, it was... And it was, like, easy. It was fine. Everyone was so nice to me. And I was like, no, I hate this. Yeah. I hate typing.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
you know i mean her life was just very complicated very crazy yeah and um yeah not even through any effort really it's just kind of happened that way that like content creation is working out for me and then christian kind of really motivated me to get into writing and now here we are oh my god that's so fucking awesome i was gonna say what are your what are your goals like what do you hope for like what do you hope you get to do in the entertainment industry
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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I'm, I'll do anything.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
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Yeah. I want to get murdered in a horror movie. Really bad. And like, nasty. Like, the worst death they can give me.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I would love that. Like Saw or something? Okay. Chop my shit in half. Like, pull it all out. Yeah. Do whatever. Ooh. Not Terrifier, though. That's too much. That's too much. That's too much.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
That's, yeah. I don't like the clown.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
If you can if you can have the clown kill me without the clown being there.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Invisible clown. Right. Something. Right. But yeah, I really do just want to like get to a place where I can try out a bunch of different stuff. I mean, when I was younger, I always thought it would really cool to like. you know, work on a cartoon or work on a movie or, you know, God knows what, I just want to try shit.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
You know?
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. You bring someone on, you're like, you're you're very pretty.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Yeah.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I appreciate it.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh my God. I really, I don't. I don't think I have anything in specific. I can say that we are already working on quite a few things now. Love. And I won't jinx myself. Yeah. But I'm very excited about, you know, it's like you get to a point where now you're doing stuff that's going to come in like years. Yeah. And it's going to take work over years.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And that's really cool. That's really new. I would love to. I would love to work on a movie at some point. I don't think I want to act.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Well, you want to know what? What? The people who are surrounded by a bunch of yes men always – I mean, the most untalented people in any given room. And it's really upsetting. That's true. And I can't remember what, like, got me on this so bad. I can't – I, like, blocked the person out. They were so, like – there was just nothing, like, putting in their head. Right. But I, like, met this –
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I'll be cool and I'll give feedback if you want feedback. Right. And I'll lie if you want me to lie. Same. But when you're a dick and you have a bunch of hype men and you think you're the shit, it's – There's no insult I can come up with. Do you know what I mean?
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And it's like it is upsetting me and my girls. Like we're very upset.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
We are very distraught over what – you're bringing to the function.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Yeah, I agree.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I don't know. I think it's... It's imposter syndrome is what it sounds like. You know, and this is the thing is I actually am very much someone who's like, I don't really believe in that because I do... Like, I know that the way things kind of work is that you have to fake it till you make it. Right. To an extent, yeah. To an extent. To an extent. But... Yeah, I don't know.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I guess, in a weird way, it is just, like, a superstition thing. Yeah. I'm really superstitious, too, so I get it. And I think it's also, like, it's very wild to experience. And I think almost everyone goes through this at some point in some way. Like, things being...
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
demonically bad in your life and then two years three years four years later it's like a complete 180 yeah that's a crazy feeling totally it's hard to like to not be disoriented or worry about it yes like or worry if the other shoe's gonna drop kind of thing it is yeah and yeah i don't know i feel like there's always very much a part of like restraint about me in that yeah like I don't know.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I just don't want to say too much.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Walking in your power.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
That's why it is. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah, no, for sure. And I will say, I think it's also two things. I believe like that your actions speak for itself and your work speaks for itself. Totally. And also I watched that one episode of George Lopez where his, when I was really young, where his mom talks about the evil eye.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I think that got in my head in a crazy way because all she described was like, if you say something, it's going to come take it from you. And I was like, well, fuck, you know? Cause I also, I thought my mom could read my mind until I was 12. So there was just a lot of stuff going on.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
That kind of got sucked into the meat after a while. So maybe it's some stuff to unpack.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I cannot imagine. I mean, and obviously because you were already very big when I saw you, but the thought of a customer mouthing off to you as their waitress is genuinely scary. You know what I mean? Like, I hope I get to go home.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I would say that you should just do it. I mean, just if you
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh girl, I'm gagged to have you. I'm so excited. I was thinking about it the entire month since I got the email. Girl. Didn't think about anything else. Sat in my room. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I don't know. Like when I started, I don't think I really had a point of view. Right. And I don't really think I knew myself. And then somehow through just enjoying doing it, I may be constantly saying everything in my head out loud. Like now I definitely have a point of view. Yeah. And you also, you never know who is watching you. Totally.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I will tell you 100% did not expect this was going to happen.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
At all. No, I got that email and I sent it to, and I keep doing this. I'll get like a crazy fucking email and send it to him and be like, should I answer this?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Yes. Yeah. God, God, God bless him. Right. Um, yeah, you, you never know who was going to see you and show other people around them. And it's a really wild thing when it starts happening. Yeah. And I think that's kind of the big thing. Um, that is really sad about Tik TOK too, is, um, Yeah. Anyone, anyone can get big on TikTok.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And it's like democratic about who blows up in a way that I think a lot of people assume is like it doesn't really take talent. Right. And it doesn't to go viral. Yeah. It does not take any talent to go viral at all. But to maintain attention. Yeah. And to build a loyal audience from TikTok where, like, 100,000 followers can mean nothing.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Everyone is on TikTok. Literally, yeah. You know, so... Yeah, I think just... finding a point of view and really understanding yourself when you're talking to the public, like that will do crazy shit for you. Absolutely. Literally.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And it's there's like a little cult of this type of girl on TikTok. Right. Molly, like just so many different girls I'm obsessed with. Right. And people who like, you know, because you I was I was posting already, but absolutely like the way you speak about things, the way Molly speaks about things. So many of those girls like was foundational to me being like.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
oh, I see the way she did that and why it's different than like, there truly is a difference that from getting online and being mean and actually taking the time to craft an insult, like make it smart, you know?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I made my choices very carefully.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Absolutely. Oh, and I did takes to make sure that timing was like, don't worry, bitch. That camera went off and on and off and on until. All the punch was exactly because I wanted that shit to sting. Exactly. Really bad.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, I know.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I added extra mean into the mission accomplished. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
I fucking adore you. I am really happy to be here. I'm so glad we got to meet finally in person.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Whoops.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Well, for like the next couple of weeks, you can find me on TikTok. You can follow my sub stack, The Quiet Part. You can listen to my podcast, Meat Bus, on Patreon and Spotify. And then I have a YouTube channel. We'll see if anything gets posted, but it is just Kay Poyer at Kay Poyer.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh my God. I think it's going to be fantastic. You're going to have a front row ticket. Yes, obviously. And by that point, we'll have like the theaters that spray real blood on you. Yeah. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
No, they're convinced that you do. That's the thing. When you are the person giving the bad. There is no messenger anymore. And there is no shooting the messenger. Because when you are the person saying your commute is going to suck, you're the girl who decided that. You're the girl who's going to dig up the road. Right. And. You're the girl who wants everyone to suffer. Exactly.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
You know what I mean? Obviously, obviously. That's just how it works for customer service.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Babe, I talked about this earlier. I saw you used to deliver pizzas and that was like... Yeah. So you can imagine. Oh, and like in the boonies, by the way, like I live in like a town and I would drive past the truck stop out of the town.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
To bring people pizza in the country. Right.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, yeah. And I went to this guy's house. It was 7 p.m. It's dark, but it was 7 p.m. Yeah. And I went to the wrong address. I went to the next door neighbor. He had a ring doorbell. He had his porch light on. All the windows were open. I am wearing a uniform. I shouldn't say who. A pizza uniform. I am carrying the box in front of me. My hat says pizza.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
It's very clear. I ring the doorbell. And right before it opens, I hear the ch-ch-ch.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
oh my god and he opens it not even like a little hand something like a shotgun oh no no no no like a rifle oh like i don't even think it was a hunting rifle and this is crazy and this is not good there was no fight or flight i think i literally looked at him and i said are you fucking kidding are you so serious you're so me and there was a pause yeah but then he got embarrassed and he was like i didn't know who you were and i just turned around and walked away i was like you said yeah
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Am I getting punked? Like, is this a joke?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. And it was embarrassing for him. And then I went, yeah, I just drove on the clock and like sat in the parking lot of the Red Roof Inn and watched TikToks for like 30 minutes after that. It's like, I don't care. Yeah. Ate the pizza.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Nobody actually wants to do that.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Are you out of your mind? Never.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
What do you do?
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
You know what? I think at a certain point for me, I was like, if you can flip that pizza, I do not care.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
It is out of my hands. I don't get paid enough. Yeah.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
to deal with I think about that too especially when they have like that shoplifting rule in like retail stores and they're like don't chase them and I was like well I'm not and I'm not going to because this company doesn't care if I live or die right I'm not gonna die for it so and I do think shoplifting is objectively funny when I do think it's so funny I used to work at this I'm not gonna name any of these stores yeah because they're gonna call me and be like we didn't know you were this bad but
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
It was a store that sold just like random crap. Like you could get a couch, a bottle of wine, a colander, and like a bunch of foreign snacks. Yeah. All in the same store. And then jewelry.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Thank you so much for having me. It's been very fun. I was hoping I would have more time while I was in LA to like do all the LA girl stuff. But we've been, we've been hustling since we've been here, but it's been great.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And there was this jewelry display. Yeah. And, you know, it was, like, an end cap and the little things on the side. And she was, like, a 40-year-old woman. Like, very much grown.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
And I was looking right at her. And she had kind of just pressed her body up into the end cap and was shoveling jewelry into her purse. I let her do it. It's like, you know what? Yes. Have fun. You know what? You want some help carrying that? Diva down. Yeah. She did not care.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Yeah. Do you want some wine? I'll go grab it for you. I have some recommendations. If you like a Zinfandel.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, hell no.
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MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
fuck no no i yeah no hey yeah no i don't want no problems yeah yeah i'm out i will say it's interesting like in the job i've been because i kept my day job still like i tiktok was absolutely paying good but i get superstitious yeah i feel you you know what i mean yeah like i feel like if you quit the day job too early that's when your life or the whole thing like comes tumbling down yeah yeah that's fair you know what i mean it's smart it's smart to do that
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
yeah but now it's you know i work in antiques so if stuff gets stolen the person who was selling it is going to come in and try to take your skin off you know what i mean like it's not like it's yeah it's not like oh corporate mark it off the clipboard it's like how dare you not die for my booth how could you how could you yeah you did it you know how much that means to me oh yeah you said oh me working in the store for minimum wage okay
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
oh less than oh so much less than and by the way texas minimum wage i don't know if you know this 725 it's crazy i mean i don't know what it is anywhere else but nice nice well not livable that's for sure in anywhere in the country no no
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
very booked and very busy and i've been keeping it a secret i have not been telling them that's true yeah and as far as they're concerned january 19th they're throwing me in the glue factory they're committing you yeah genuinely yeah but i have stuff up my sleeve i'm not gonna be executed it's fine right it's totally good but i'd love to know more about your lore like how you
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
It's been cool. Well, you know what I think is really good? Hmm. I feel like most people who have seen my videos have seen like one really big one. And I can tell by what they say when they come up. I'm either a food bank lady, which... Let's think before we talk. Right, exactly. A food bank lady is...
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
diabolical that is a crazy thing to call someone yeah but it's like food bank lady or I don't even know what the other one I don't remember what the other ones are but anyways it has been slower like some people I mean millions overnight and that's good when that happens like and people can make a lot out of it yeah I don't think I would have done that.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
If I got like a million followers overnight, I think I would have crashed out in a really crazy way.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
Oh, multiple parking lots. Back and forth. In the 7-Eleven. It would be really bad.
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
yeah so it's been cool i feel like there's this term that like people throw around sometimes gay famous where like gay people in any given city a couple of them will probably know who you are if it helps i'm also gay famous it's so yeah that's the best way it's fierce i love it is absolutely because when everyone else gets involved it just gets weird right yeah they want you to look like a newscaster
The Comment Section with Drew Afualo
MAYBE WE’RE FALLING IN LOVE Ft. Kay Poyer | Episode 152
You can't say fun stuff anymore. I couldn't say, you know, you can't say things like shoplifting is funny.