Kelly
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my job as a behavioral therapist.
So I had a lot of things going on and I couldn't be there all the time, but I wanted to push my
dad in the right direction so he could live with brian i think he's like the most important we have to an important person we have to figure out how to accommodate so i went with him there and it seemed pretty positive it seemed like something that was going to help the only thing is my dad didn't follow through with it and that's something that is frustrating for me i don't like
you can't help somebody who doesn't want the help and i don't think he he'll he he want my dad wants to vent but he doesn't want to take the help if that makes sense yeah so yeah my dad also doesn't
go to therapy or really do much to help his own mental state.
So while these were both great resources, it, it just didn't work out for my parents.
And as for me, I stopped going to the support group for, for my own situation.
I was becoming more depressed talking about it.
Like it's always great to let it out.
But I have realized I'm better at doing that with my husband or somebody close to me than I am sharing it, even though I care.
That's exactly what it was like.
It was like, I just have to keep bringing it back up.
I don't want to try to forget this.
Even with therapy, I did do therapy for a bit.
I just on and off throughout this time.
And as everyone knows, it's hard to find a good therapist that you want to stick with.
And then like you're saying, each time I had to explain and re-explain the situation.
So for me, it just didn't work out.
But I strongly do advise to do therapy at the same time.