Ken Coleman

And you need to step into this because I'm also a spender and I appreciate what Rachel said.

This is a communication issue, number one.

But I will tell you, this is, we've got to make sure we understand our triggers with this stuff.

Because you guys, the way this went, I'm not criticizing you at all.

But what I'm hearing is, Rachel, is that we went back and forth on volleyball.

And he did identify that.

He goes, I realized I just kind of triggered you when I said, oh, I was going to spend more money, you know, because that's my trigger.

It's a good man.

Hey, this is brass tacks, real, real conversation and go, we can't play this one upmanship.

I do think her answer is the solve, but you're going to have to not just do it on paper.

You're going to have to actually behave that way.

Yeah.

And I like fun money categories because then you go and spend it.

You don't like when Sam spends his money, I have the time.

I don't even know what he's spending it on.

And I don't ask because honestly, I don't care.

And same thing for me.

And I think as long as it's living in that catch all, then you get to ask him, well, what happened to that $50?

What happened to this money?

And I think just letting yourselves go and do your thing and be free.