Ken Coleman

You got to redefine control.

Marlee, I thought I was going to hear something far more traumatic.

Maybe you didn't want to share it.

Don't need you to share it.

Right.

Something you witnessed has created a massive, massive hole of trust in your life.

You just don't trust anybody.

Not criticizing you here.

You called in.

I'm making a little quick analysis here to say that there is no way to structure trust

these relationships with romance and then a lack of trust around finance.

You just can't do it.

And what's going to happen, Marley, and you said you're okay with it and you've signed up for it.

Here was my suggestion.

If you haven't done it before, I would get a really good therapist and I would sit with a therapist long enough and you got the money to do it.

And I would dive into this to see if the therapist can help you get to the bottom of this lack of trust and then help you with tools to be able to deal with this trust.

Because I think in the end, if you give it a shot, for those of us, I've been married almost 28 years, so I'm not selling something that I don't believe in.

I just think that you can have that relationship that you long for and coexist with finances.

but not until you can see the source of your lack of trust.

And I see that.