Ken Coleman

And that's what I'm getting at.

Here's where I'm going with this, Jessica, and I want Jade to weigh in.

Where I'm going with this, Jade, is if he is not a jerk, and it sounds like he's not, and he's not dishonest, that's good.

And they've had pleasant conversations, just nothing's changing.

That's right.

But he's letting her lead on the administrative part of the finances, and that's what I heard.

Mm-hmm.

I still think they have a conversation, but I think if this dude is kind of like hands off and when she says, hey, I'd like to do this because she's an awesome wife and she's being transparent and he's kind of like, that's not how I want to roll.

But he's not like fighting her on it.

I think it's a meaning to go, this is what I'm going to do.

And I want you to trust me and here's why.

And then see what he says.

And I think that's wise, Jessica.

That's great advice because here's what I think.

I think you can influence him.

I think so too.

To come to your page.

Because it doesn't sound in any way like this is something that can't be solved.

We've taken calls before where the husband is just like almost abusive on something, you know, verbally or certainly financially.

And I think in this case, I love Jade's advice.