Kim Anami

If you're one of those women who can't, don't you worry about it.

It's okay.

And I would say that those people have just never actually had these kinds of experiences themselves.

And so my guarantee is that every woman can.

And if she hasn't yet...

It's that there's something blocking that.

Either she's simply bought into the belief that, oh, I'm just one of those women who can't.

So she gives up, right?

She tries and it doesn't work.

So she thinks she just accepts that reality or pseudo reality.

Or she's got some kind of blockages, like, let's say, unresolved sexual trauma within her system or just buying into these cultural beliefs about sexuality that then become internalized oppression.

And all of those things can hold somebody back from realizing this kind

potential.

So what I've seen over the decades of doing this work is that when you remove those blockages, then if you build it, they will come.

That all of these things are available to both women and men when you do this deeper inner work.

Yeah, I'd say it's one of them.

It creates a distortion in people's sexuality and a dissociation because if you are, and like, it's not a moral judgment so much as what's the best use of my energy, right?

Like if most people are using it as a quick fix and a hit, they're getting this major dopamine depletion, but they're dissociating.

They're leaving their body and their reality and entering into another one.

And so my encouragement is that people really tune into their own body's