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Konstantin Kisin

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And if you, again, are in those formative vulnerable years where you're 14, 15, and you learn not to interact with people, and then you become dependent on the simulations.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And so I think the pandemic just really...

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

It tore everything apart that was already fraying.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

Yeah.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

Yeah, and this is the issue with a lot of the mental health advice now is it's about affirming and validating your struggles.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

So if you're... I was so socially anxious when I was young.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And the worst thing that could have happened would be me joining like a social anxiety Reddit forum or like following social anxiety influencers.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

Because typically they'll say things like, you're different from just shy people.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

So shy people will struggle to speak on the phone or to be in big groups.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

Socially anxious people, it will cause a panic attack.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

It will cause something much more severe.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And you're feeling it on such a level that it would be unmanageable.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And when I was 14, I would have been like, yeah, that's me, the worst one.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

But then they say, oh, you know, it will be too overwhelming for you to try and do these things.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And then you, unfortunately, girls co-ruminate with each other.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

So they bond through talking about their problems over and over.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And a Reddit forum is like a rumination machine where you're all there to ruminate.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And so you have socially anxious people saying, this awful thing happened to me.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

Don't ever put yourself in this situation.

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How the Internet Ruins Young People - Freya India

And you have people avoiding.