Kourtney Kardashian
Appearances
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
That is a very intense cup. Size or crystals? All of it.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Oh, hello.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I've been waiting to come down to Wonderland.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I was like, being a mom?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So I felt like becoming a mom again really ignited, like intensely ignited my motherly role, my motherly instinct, and I feel like my feminine energy ignited. Remember, I would always send you videos.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
About feminine energy. And I feel like it intensely ignited that feeling inside me of just, I am a mom. I had a strong desire to not work and stay home and be with the kids, which is, I would say, probably like once a week, I'll
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
work just today this is today okay this is yes thank you and it's not like the whole day it's you know hours yeah it's like a couple hours of my day and then the rest of the time i'm truly at home and I'm, you know, being a mom.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
maybe the stuff. I would want to have the best lotion or the best oil or whatever. And now I just use organic coconut oil. I keep it pretty simple.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And so you're like, I need everything. I had things before, but I remember like when mom would try to stress me out about the room or be like, it's not even painted. And that's when I said people had babies in caves. It just like gave me peace to know it's okay. Whatever it is, as long as I have a boob and, you know. You have two of those. Whatever.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And one thing I guess we did differently, I did differently this time is – And I've always shared a bed with the other kids, but I share a room. We share a room with Rocky.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Oh, like do this.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And I think it started more from just space in the house, you know?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think it's really not separating for as much as possible in the first definitely three years. It really helps, I think, nurture their attachment, secure attachment. And it's actually, it's just even without knowing that, I remember I read the attachment parenting book before Penelope. But it's kind of just what my instincts say. Like I lean towards and it's like what they tell me to do.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Has Kim been to Wonderland?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I feel like just my motherly instincts.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I thought one of them that was interesting was like, how do we do things differently?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
As like mother. Okay. As the mother role. And I feel like I was thinking about it because first I'm like, I don't know what Chloe does. I have no idea.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Oh, I was just going to say that you- are very scheduled.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And very scheduled and planned out throughout the whole day, like activities, outfits, all the things, bedtimes, food.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, we have a general time, but we're not definitely as babies. We had no schedule. Rocky doesn't really have a schedule, but he has a general thing. But if it's like some days, like today we got up at 7, made breakfast for the kids, and they got out the door. And then I noticed he was so tired at around 8.30. And so we nursed in bed and he went to sleep.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
No, I could just tell. But so then today I have no idea what nap time would be. And like, it's okay. We're just kind of go with the flow. And also with the attachment style parenting, I hold him for his naps.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
The whole time. Wow.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think Saturday.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah, he's like 23 pounds.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Once he took a nap for like five hours and-
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
In a sling or just free balling this? No, like I'll sit in our little chair. Okay. Usually in the room. And then... That's great. I still have my little breastfeeding pillow.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And then he'll kind of lay on there, but my arms under. And then I have a little radiation blanket that I put over to like protect from EMFs for phone use or...
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And I have that little sticker on my phone too.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I was curious. I don't think so.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, I think even just how I'll do like extended breastfeeding, co-sleeping.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
No, but it's also what it wasn't possible.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Like a lactation consultant.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think you were stressed out too.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I read something recently that said if you do things the opposite of how you were raised in certain things, like in certain areas- That you're healing yourself. You're healing that wound of things that you didn't get that you needed.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Oh, I did. I wasn't breastfed. I'm saying as a child.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Are you like, are my kids going to remember that?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But I think it's- Subconsciously? Subconscious. It's like an instinct inside of me that's like, I didn't, with Mason, I breastfed for like 14 months. I wasn't thinking like, whoa, I wasn't breastfed. So I'm going to breastfeed this long. It's just, I think like what makes you happy. I think it's a feeling inside of just like, or just an instinct or intuition.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
That was the first time I read that was recently of that sentiment. And I just thought it was interesting.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think it's that connection or like co-sleeping or like that I don't leave for extended periods of time. What are your issues with mom?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Some days I've thought like, wow, this is really hard blending families. But even in the days where it's hard, there's so much more love. It's such a deeper, richer existence, you know? I think living authentically is not conforming. I will like nurse the fever of my kids versus giving Tylenol or Ibuprofen. Like I love to just go against the grain. So I don't do Botox.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
No, I don't have issues.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, no, I don't have issues now. Now I feel like I can ask her questions. I even went to visit MJ recently. And just out of curiosity, because I feel like it's good for us to know our just even family, how our family did things before us. Just more from a curiosity standpoint, I was asking MJ, like, how did you do things? Did you breastfeed? Did you have help? What did she say?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
She said she breastfed. Forgot how long she told me. And then I asked, but I need, I recorded it actually. Nice. But then I asked her like, did you co-sleep? Where did the kids sleep? Did they sleep in their own room by themselves? It was a very different time too.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
There's days when everyone's home and everyone has friends over. And then there's days when No one's home and it's Travis and I and the baby.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I'm not asking to judge. I'm just asking to know.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So if she says no. And then I was asking mom too, when we went to lunch the other day and I was asking her like, what did they do? Did you have a monitor? Did, was cry it out like a thing? She said she did. They had sound only. Sound only. Yeah, she said that she had a sound only monitor. And I said, was cry it out a thing at that time? And she said, She would try, but she would always cave.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And I was thinking, after how long was I sitting there crying alone in a dark room? Oh, my God. But I think I had resentment about certain things even before I ever started therapy. And then I think as... maybe the first year or so on my start of my therapy journey, I would have certain resentful feelings, which already existed. It was just kind of like working through them.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And then I think finally getting to the place of either if there's actions that happen that I don't love or agree with, just to not take them personally.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
or even feel the need to like correct them or, you know, have a conversation about every little thing with balance because I also just don't want to keep it in for and it keeps happening and then I like explode or something. I think it's good to thoughtfully say something if it makes you feel a certain way. But yeah, to now just being able to be like,
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
curious about how things were done but not really judgmental because we're all just on a different journey path i love that it's interesting though i always hear the thing too how kids could grow up with the same parents and the same household but they're so different but it's because they get a different version of you because you're at a different place in your life you know more you're
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Just a different person. But I think I love our traditions. Love our traditions.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I mean, the balance is nice, but I think him and I love when everyone's home. We had family dinner last night. We have family dinner every Sunday, and there were four of them at dinner. I remember when we first would do family dinners, I would try to be like, okay, who are you bringing? Yeah. So we can set the table and make sure we have the table set for the right amount of people.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Oh, like people think that that's how I got pregnant.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah, a year after stopping IVF.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And he conceived naturally on Valentine's Day. We conceived naturally on Valentine's Day.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
12 midnight.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, no, I love that he obviously wanted his birthday to be November 1st. But I my lesson from IVF was that. it really felt like it was going against me, against physically, spiritually, mentally, everything that I believed and felt. It just felt like it was going against what my body wanted. And so it didn't work for me at all. We never made an embryo through IVF. It also felt like
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And then it's just like Travis would say, but we don't have to know. Just let it flow. You would be like, I need their name. I'm making a name tag.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
a monthly negative, almost like rejection every time it would be like, it didn't work or, you know, this isn't happening and your body's doing this. It was like someone negatively talking about my body to me every month after month. And then- you almost start to feel that way about your body. Like I can't do this or, you know, whatever.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So once I let go of all of that, it's almost like certain fear-based doctors that kind of are like, ah, you need to do this. Cause I don't know. That's kind of what was happening. So once I was able to let go of all that and just trust in God, it happened.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I feel like people are always surprised. They'll be like, what? You witches? Yeah, I get that all the time.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah. You do? I read, like I have like a daily devotional that I read. I've been trying to ask some of our friends out that live near us to do a Bible study, which I think would be amazing for the adults.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I feel like we both are, and I feel like we say prayers together when we're like, you know, when there's something coming up. I mean, I say the kids' prayers every night. If there's something that they might be anxious about at school or something, you know, we'll pray in those moments, pray before flights or travel together as a family.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And I'm like, so now we set the table. for the whole amount, which I think is 12. Like the amount of the table.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I don't know. What do people think about our relationship?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Really? It's probably either about kids stuff.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So one thing that was surprising also is being a mom of four or seven. But yeah, mom of seven. Obviously, all my kids deserve my energy. But just of being like, how do I prioritize here? Because like I said, I want to be with the baby as much as I can. But then if one of the other kids need me and if it doesn't make sense to, you know, sometimes they need one-on-one attention.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah, that sits at the table. One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine. Yeah, it's 12. We set the table for 12 and whoever comes, comes. There's been times when it's been Me, Travis, and Rocky. Just you three? Just us. Oh, my gosh. And the table's set for everyone, and no one else can make it. But it's usually everyone and some friends.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And so I found sequencing. Like putting things in order of importance has really helped me.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
That's a good way to think of it. Because even with activities, like mom said to me the other day, and I love challenging the things that she will come to me with, but she was like- Chloe's son does all these activities every single day, blah, blah, blah, like naming the whole thing.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I also don't like the comparing because that always just makes you... Well, also I said to her, I said, you know, it's also... And this is not for your son because he's three. But when the kids get older, I said it's not great to like fill... Overschedule. Right, overschedule or fill too much of their time with...
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
scheduling because they also need time to just chill I agree with true I pulled back some for activities I don't like over scheduling yeah I was trying to figure out how to balance with all the kids and I felt this need to drive them to school in the mornings and then I started talking about it thinking about it and then I was like is it important to you guys like I said today for example would you rather me drive you to school in the morning or go to your game and it was go to the game
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So then I was like, it's okay. Then I can spend the morning with, you know, Travis and Rocky. And then I can go to the game this afternoon. And then I can, you know, figure out. It's like each person getting their own time. Yeah.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
There's a lot.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I mean, the days in Miami were fun. So fun. More fun than the days in the Hamptons, I would say.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah, in a hot summer when no one was in town.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Just like the era where it felt like you and Kim were like the tables turned and you and I would gang up on Kim for so long. And then it felt like the tables turned. So you didn't like both eras?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But then later, once you and Kim would gang up on me and I was the sensitive one, I think it was once I started therapy. And then once... I would kind of started challenging the ways that we did things sometimes, like the way that we just all functioned. No, I know that era and I hated it too. And so I think that now it's just.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, I feel like I love to just go against the grain.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think living authentically is not conforming to whatever it is. And whether for me, it's like there's so many ways. There's ways like we function as a family that it's like if someone does the same thing every day. Like I do it with everything. It's not about our family. Like let's say the school system. I'll think, why do kids fucking go to school? Truly. It's so dated.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But I remember just thinking, can't we do things that are just the family, like family trips or any of those?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So then I'll start thinking, and then my kids will send me videos about why do kids go to school? It'll be really successful people, and they'll be like, my kids... never go to school and they're never going to and whatever. And then I'm like, okay, what's the goal here? You want to do homeschool? Let's do it, you know, or whatever it is. I'll just, I think it's anything.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I will like nurse the fever of my kids versus giving Tylenol or ibuprofen. Like I just like want to, to do that. And whatever, whatever it is, there's so many things like that, where I feel like I kind of do maybe in the world, the generally maybe does more what I do. But in the United States, it's Kimberly.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Good luck at the Met. Thank you. We can't wait to see how everyone looks. What time are you going out? Imagine being us and just being able to sit home and think, watch everyone on the red carpet. I can't wait.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But I remember we would also do things like when we would go to Vail for Thanksgiving and go skiing, we weren't allowed to bring friends.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I'll be drinking 818.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Don't forget that Lemmy Purr. Oh, thank you. I love you. Bye. Bye, guys. Did you know Lemmy Purse, our number one Lemmy?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I kind of did. Of course you did.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But no, it's obviously such a blessing. And I love that people resonate with it and that it's fun to
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And when we would go to.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
No, for real. You're going to talk about sending things? No, sometimes you send really long text message answers and I'm like, who has the time? First of all. If anyone here has you on text, I'm sure they know what I'm talking about. But you're very thorough in your response. And it's not- So God forbid I'm thorough. No, it's not a bad quality. But sometimes I'm like, dude, we get it.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
If Kim will send something to the chat, you'll be like, Kim, this is absolutely the most fantastic thing I've ever seen. And you know, whatever.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Probably. And also people would do things with their own families for Thanksgiving. Or when we went to Hawaii, we weren't allowed to bring friends. It's a nice idea, but I've grown a lot in the way of just being able to be like... It doesn't matter. Whoever comes to dinner, it's going to be, it's like I let go of a lot of the need to almost plan or maybe it's even have control.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah. I get it.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think that's honestly it.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think sometimes you'll just, like, look... At me with like just judging eyes. Like you'll just be there like kind of judging.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Judging away. Okay. It's not today's mood. It's a certain mood. Okay.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
No, it's just kind of like, oh. Yeah, I don't know. It's just a little.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So I don't do Botox.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I feel like my third eye is open. Courtney. And so I feel like my intuitions are very awake.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
With no other facial expression.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Maybe that's why they stand out so much.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
There's nothing else moving, just the eyes.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
kind of what i said on the chat the other day i said i will always push the envelope or push a little against what you guys are not always if i feel it and then i'm just gonna give a little thing to maybe sprinkle a little thinking dust aren't you happy that i added you back to that chat because then i said take me off if you
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Especially when Rocky was even smaller, the chats are overwhelming when I'm like.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
She probably has us restricted.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, Kylie hasn't responded in longer than that, so.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Because mom made the same dinner every night for like years. And I was like, no more spaghetti. I need something else.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I guess. But I mean, it's I don't know. And then I would say, I wonder if it was that same pasta, you know, the pasta that she makes the pasta peppers, or the pasta primavera.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah. I was like, no more pasta primavera.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
This was great.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I don't know what it is, but I've let go of that a lot to just be like the table set, whoever comes, you know, comes. And for trips too, I'll be like, everyone's invited. Yeah.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But I've grown to be that way through the experience because if I held on to it or let things like that bother me, which I used to, I'd used to be like when it was family dinner, well, why can't you tell me who's coming? I don't get it. Why, you know, why can't I would ask Travis, can you tell me who's coming of the kids and I'll see who's coming with the younger kids or whatever.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And then I just was able to let it go.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, I love my role as stepmom because I don't feel like it's up to me to discipline. And so we've kind of allowed each other to, we'll talk about it and then, you know, he can handle the harder things. I definitely give advice to, or try to be a good, I guess, role model or even just how they say modeling is the best way to kind of teach your kids more than just saying certain things.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So I feel just hopefully being a positive influence or an example and we have lots of good conversations and we laugh and I feel like it's in the best way I can be there to be supportive or really in any way that they want me to be for as much or as little as they want, you know? And so I do think also having the relationship that we've had for so many years.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I was friends with Travis and the kids for longer than we've been together, you know?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So I think having that history definitely helped. And I used to think too, going into it, oh, there's, there's we have such a good foundation that it would just be seamless. But some days I've thought, wow, this is really hard blending families.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I feel like my third eye is open.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
still know like where's my role like let me test boundaries and I think that's very normal but for you you're probably like wait I thought we were good and you are well and I think about yeah also I think it was hard for all but we moved out of our house that we had lived in you know for the kids whole lives and then Moved in there and then sharing space, which we did slowly.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
We stayed, I think, a year and a half separately but married but living a block away from each other. So I think that was really a helpful transition.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But even once you're then living together, there's things you don't even think about, like moving things in the pantry or, I don't know, just little things that you don't think about. And again, that's where I've had growth because I would think, okay, take a deep breath.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
It's okay if the fridge is a mess because there's some days 25 people going in there and looking for something or grabbing something. Now I've gotten it to such a good place. But I remember just,
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So everyone is in such different phases, but even in the days where it's hard, there's so much more love. There's so much, it's such a deeper, richer existence. You know, when we first got married, they said it takes four years to get on the same boat together as a family, as a blended family.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I got married in May.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So my anniversary is coming up and it'll be three years. That's crazy. So it said it really truly takes four years to feel like you're all on the same boat and you're truly a family and like doing this together. You're almost there. Right. One year left.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But I remember... At the times when it didn't feel that way or it feels like it's like your squad versus my squad or, you know, we do things this way and you do things this way or whatever it could be.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
I think doing it each our own way for so long and then coming together and being like, okay, now what's our way? How do we do it? Because I'll be like, but this is how I do it.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Right. What's our new way now? What's the way? So I think it's like finding your way and then... Do you have tips for people that are blending families? I'll always think of it like this. what is my, what am I supposed to learn from this and grow from this? Say it's one specific thing. I'll be like, okay, how do I learn and grow from this moment?
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Or, you know, we're two people with two brains that have different opinions sometimes. So how do you Each express your side and be heard. How is it good enough, you know, for everybody kind of thing. If I laugh about something and don't take it so seriously, it's kind of like a choice.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, no, I don't mean like laugh at them. That is just uncomfortableness of just like laughing because I don't know what else to do. But this is like having a choice to be like. Oh, it's not that big of a deal. And just kind of like, not like laugh it off if it means something to you.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
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Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Yeah, don't sweat the small stuff. But also, I mean, have a sense of humor. I don't want to give specific examples, but if a teenager did something that's like what teenagers do. Right. And instead of being like, I'm not the role that has to make it a big deal. So I feel like I could just be like, oh my gosh, that was, thanks to myself, that was actually kind of funny and smart and whatever.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Okay, so that wasn't my experience.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
But maybe that's why it became your experience.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So grateful for that for you. Really? Yeah. Tried to be dad for you? Well, not dad, but tried to be controlling and bossy and would tell me certain friends can't come over and would like...
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Or I think about too with Denise.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
And I love her. Shout out Denise. And I still have a relationship with her. And I think about what an amazing example she was to all of us. She taught us so much about being young ladies at the time.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
She didn't do that for me, but...
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
With knowing table manners or whatever it is.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
No, I wish that I did that. But maybe I was just older, so maybe she was able to teach us.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So, yeah, I think having that really positive experience with Denise really – helped me too. And I think.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Well, yeah.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
So weird that you had such a different experience. I think it's because you were younger. Yeah.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Oh, yeah. I'd be like, I want to call my dad. And then he would like hang up the phone. We would have yelling wars.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Not even know.
Khloé in Wonder Land
Boundaries, Blended Families & Brutal Honesty ft. Kourtney Kardashian
Thank you. It was fine. That's why I moved into dad's.