Krissy Hoadley

They are suffering in some way, shape or form because they don't have a bond with the dad they needed.

And they are now torn apart from the moms they had because they're all gone in separate directions.

That can be so fucking tough.

So if you want to do polyamory and you're 25 years old and you're out on the New York single scene.

Yeah, go for it.

Cool, dude.

Yeah, no problem.

It's just your emotions involved.

But that's a different kind of polyamory, in my opinion.

That's like, you know, having fun polyamory.

That's exploring sexuality.

And maybe you do that for the rest of your life.

But when you bring kids involved, and your whole purpose is to have and raise children inside of a unit that's constantly growing with adult parental figures, you have to be fucking careful about who you choose to bring into that unit.

And you have to make sure it's not just for now, it's for fucking ever.

Because those kids are going to need that parent for fucking ever.

Lots of divorces happen and parents manage their way through it.

That's not what I'm saying.

But this feels like this is not that, in my opinion.

It's not about man or woman.

I'm talking about man or man, woman or woman, man or woman, dog or cat.