Kristina Ellis

Like, they've got to finish out the school year, ideally.

It sounds like your son wants to leave, but you could give yourself a little bit of runway and still do the move.

Be debt-free.

Move to Texas with no debt and still negotiate the package.

Get your moving costs and just start in a really great place.

Well, it wouldn't be $60,000.

You'd pay that $30,000 that you have right now, that $29,000.

Where'd you get that number, the $25,000?

Well, and I think I think if you resign yourself to like, I love the idea of trying to negotiate the moving costs.

And it's like if you've already resigned that twenty nine thousand dollars to this is this is going to be moving costs.

And I'm not going to try to negotiate.

You're just going to spend that money.

But it's like if you are hungry and you're like, we have paid those loans off.

We don't have the moving costs.

So this has to be part of the compensation package.

Like you're going to negotiate that much more aggressively.

And it sounds a little bit like you feel a little disheartened right now.

And I think that with a little bit of a mindset shift, you could really go in and tackle multiple goals rather than just kind of passively doing it.

Well, and it's just, it's the difference between going on and all in.

We hear Dave say all the time that personal finance, winning with it, it's 80% behavior, 20% head knowledge.