Kyle Sandilands
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
What are you thinking?
Are you trying to put a pattern together?
Like, did I miss any red flags?
Was there things that I brushed off as a joke that now seem like it was an obvious problem?
Or were you flabbergasted, blindsided by all of this?
Not even an isolated situation.
This was the beginning of a pattern.
And do you as the spouse, and obviously you can't blame yourself, they're not your choices that led him to do this,
But do you as the partner, do you think, should I have noticed?
You wouldn't be able to help but to sort of half try and blame yourself, even though you've got nothing at all to do with this.
And it's not your fault.
It's nothing to do with you.
But you were right there.
Did you bash yourself up a bit about it emotionally?
Of course.
The victims carry the guilt and the shame, and that's –
That's a weight that they shouldn't have to carry.
They've already gone through enough.
You, the family.
And then they feel the weight of other people as well coming forward.