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Kyle

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Well, everything that you thought you knew, you have to forget, which if you realize it was wrong, that shouldn't be too hard, right? But we're analyzing it, you know, based on like trying to solve a traditional problem. You have to just kind of throw that away, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Well, everything that you thought you knew, you have to forget, which if you realize it was wrong, that shouldn't be too hard, right? But we're analyzing it, you know, based on like trying to solve a traditional problem. You have to just kind of throw that away, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Yeah, so approaching is not like, you know, conducting a business transaction at the DMV or something like that, right? It's not like going to the social security office. Hey, next up, I'm Kyle, how you doing? This is what I bring to the table, right? A lot of times she's just tuning that out. You have to offer some value, right? You have to add some value. What?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Yeah, so approaching is not like, you know, conducting a business transaction at the DMV or something like that, right? It's not like going to the social security office. Hey, next up, I'm Kyle, how you doing? This is what I bring to the table, right? A lot of times she's just tuning that out. You have to offer some value, right? You have to add some value. What?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Yeah, so approaching is not like, you know, conducting a business transaction at the DMV or something like that, right? It's not like going to the social security office. Hey, next up, I'm Kyle, how you doing? This is what I bring to the table, right? A lot of times she's just tuning that out. You have to offer some value, right? You have to add some value. What?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

You're saying women don't want to see your resume and treat it like a job interview?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

You're saying women don't want to see your resume and treat it like a job interview?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

You're saying women don't want to see your resume and treat it like a job interview?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

I know. And if we thought that that was the case, even if we didn't actually think that, but if that's the way we acted, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

I know. And if we thought that that was the case, even if we didn't actually think that, but if that's the way we acted, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

I know. And if we thought that that was the case, even if we didn't actually think that, but if that's the way we acted, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

It wasn't going to work out too well, right? She's looking for you to add value. And there's... Definitely enough regular business transactions in the course of everybody's life. We want to feel good when we're approaching. Whether we're being approached or the one doing the approaching. we have to figure out how to add some value. And that's how I reframed it in my mind. You know what I mean?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

It wasn't going to work out too well, right? She's looking for you to add value. And there's... Definitely enough regular business transactions in the course of everybody's life. We want to feel good when we're approaching. Whether we're being approached or the one doing the approaching. we have to figure out how to add some value. And that's how I reframed it in my mind. You know what I mean?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

It wasn't going to work out too well, right? She's looking for you to add value. And there's... Definitely enough regular business transactions in the course of everybody's life. We want to feel good when we're approaching. Whether we're being approached or the one doing the approaching. we have to figure out how to add some value. And that's how I reframed it in my mind. You know what I mean?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Yeah, I tried to, like, read how she was feeling about the entire situation. And, you know, I assessed that she wasn't particularly enjoying it, right? So I said what seemed to be the most authentic thing that I could think of, which was, hey, this doesn't really seem like it's floating your boat. You know what I mean? Let's talk about that, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Yeah, I tried to, like, read how she was feeling about the entire situation. And, you know, I assessed that she wasn't particularly enjoying it, right? So I said what seemed to be the most authentic thing that I could think of, which was, hey, this doesn't really seem like it's floating your boat. You know what I mean? Let's talk about that, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

Yeah, I tried to, like, read how she was feeling about the entire situation. And, you know, I assessed that she wasn't particularly enjoying it, right? So I said what seemed to be the most authentic thing that I could think of, which was, hey, this doesn't really seem like it's floating your boat. You know what I mean? Let's talk about that, right?

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

And she said something to the effect, well, everybody's just standing around here not talking to each other. Maybe, you know, I was like, well, how about an activity? Why don't we like play pool or something like that? And that really worked well. And it kind of spearheaded the rest of the evening or into the early hours of the morning, you know.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

And she said something to the effect, well, everybody's just standing around here not talking to each other. Maybe, you know, I was like, well, how about an activity? Why don't we like play pool or something like that? And that really worked well. And it kind of spearheaded the rest of the evening or into the early hours of the morning, you know.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
‘I Went from Lonely to Dating Like Crazy!’ How Kyle Attracted His First Girlfriend in Years, and How You Can Too (Live Coaching)

And she said something to the effect, well, everybody's just standing around here not talking to each other. Maybe, you know, I was like, well, how about an activity? Why don't we like play pool or something like that? And that really worked well. And it kind of spearheaded the rest of the evening or into the early hours of the morning, you know.