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Kylee Dennis

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1511 total appearances

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I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

So...

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

I didn't report that because I didn't need to report that.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

But I understand with someone who's lost $100,000, you know, that sense of shame because then they then talk about how stupid they are internally, not externally, what we say as a community.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

So that's why they don't go forward.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

And report, because it's hard to sort of then relive it.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

Because you've got to go through the tick the boxes.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

100%.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

And that's worse than the financial.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

So any victim will talk about the emotional loss, the loss of what they thought was somebody

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

of importance in their life has now gone.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

So for them, it's, yes, I have lost 40,000 and that's devastating within the financial aspect, but I've also now lost who I am as a person.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

You know, what did I do wrong?

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

So there's, it becomes that self blame of,

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

I'm stupid, I'm dumb, you know, and we all do silly things in our life, but we can move on from that.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

Scam victims take a long time to actually accept that.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

I would actually say some of them don't.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

It is a real challenge because there's no direct processes for them to go to.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

I will say to them, look, you need to go and seek help through your GP.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

Go and find a counsellor who is understanding of that trauma.

I Catch Killers with Gary Jubelin
Unmasking romance scammers: Kylee Dennis Pt.1

You know, we've sent victims of crime to counsellors when they've been, you know, severely assaulted, etc.