Kylee Dennis

And I see how that works.

I can see when if you've, I had a victim who was a victim of domestic violence for 20 years, and I could see how that love bombing would work.

And she said,

You know, once I found out, once I got involved and told her that she was a victim of a scam, she said, I still miss that language.

I still miss what he was saying, those virtual hugs.

The money is irrelevant now.

It's the virtual hugs because she'd always been told that she was worthless in her marriage and she was belted and, you know, really treated as we know DV victims are.

But the scammer knew that.

So they tapped into that small piece of information because she had told them that she was married and was a victim of domestic violence.

So then the scammer utilised that.

Yes, 100%.

And it's interesting because you can be taken, and I call it that vortex.

And we go back to you're a widow, for example, and you've lost your – say, for example, I lost my husband and I'm a widow.

So, yes, I have – I want to now find somebody.

So that is that first step of vulnerability.

It's that strength.

I mean, Brene Brown talks about vulnerability being a strength.

So you put yourself out there because you think, oh, I'm now –

wanting somebody to be part of my life.

The scammer knows that you are a widow because you put that in your dating profile.