Kylie Kelce

Because getting a year out, I was just thinking this the other day, getting a year out feels more stable.

And I don't know if it's just the hormone flush or your body going back or your organs being back where they're intended to be or your joints feeling more stable or

Or maybe just like sleep is probably better by a year out.

All of these things that come together to just make you feel like,

A year out has been my threshold of where I feel like if I start working out again seriously that I might feel strong again or that I might feel like my body is stable.

A two-year age gap just feels reasonable because you've given your body time to adjust, but you're also not getting so far out that you feel like, why would I start over?

Guys, I've told you before, if my last kid gets out of diapers, then the shop is closed if you catch my drift.

I will say, Finny is still just cuddly enough that I do not have an urge for baby right now.

Let me just say that.

I like to leave it open-ended because...

I don't want the universe to hear me or my uterus.

Nobody's talking to you.

But I do think four feels good.

And that's it for Can I Be Honest?

Moving on, let's get to a segment that's back for another year by popular demand.

This time with some updates.

Presenting the do's and don'ts of talking to postpartum women one year after giving birth.

First up, got to start with the good old-fashioned don't.

Number one, don't ask her if she's back to her pre-baby weight yet.

Better yet, don't ask her about her weight at all, but I'm going to tell you right now.