Laurel van der Toorn

But do you think she has a right?

Does she is she entitled to know this information?

That's an interesting take because I think some of the comments on this story were like, how could your mom force you?

This makes no sense to me.

But that might be like, you know, someone of certain background, whereas in another background, it's like you're open about this stuff from the from the get go.

So I guess there is no right answer, but I can tell you there's a right answer for me and my mom.

Back off, mom.

A small loan of a million dollars kick-started my business.

Don't worry, I forget who that quote's from.

I don't forget, but don't say.

Now, if you are living at home for free in your early 20s, or for some people into their late 20s, early 30s, do you have a right to privacy, or do the parents that think you live here, you've got no right to privacy, are they right?

How could we have a therapist on the show without discussing boundaries for those where they feel like mom, or I'm sure this story people recognize either in themselves and their siblings or friends, their kids.

Is this a good opportunity for the daughter to maybe set some boundaries with mom?

I'm like laughing in my mind's eye, ear, mouth, my mind's in my imagination because the idea of telling my mom and my teens, don't go through my room, don't go through my stuff.

Yeah.

I don't think she'd understand what that statement meant.

This is like not even, wouldn't even make sense to her because she would no way stop.

Well, Laurel, thanks for going over this one with me.

I appreciate you coming on the show.

Thanks.