Lauren

This next one is coming from Am I the Asshole?

Just two days old at this point.

My 35 female partner, 40 male, peed in a mug and I was horrified.

Am I the asshole for how I reacted?

I have a way.

It was already in that order of tabs.

Wow.

I'm still a bit shocked, to be honest, so I will try to be as brief as possible.

I'm really looking for some outside perspective because I don't know if I'm being unreasonable and difficult here or if this is objectively messed up.

My partner came back home for lunch.

He went into the kitchen and said something like, I need to pee.

As he was walking away to go upstairs, I asked him to slide his shoes off because we had new carpets put down.

He then came back and said, forget it.

I don't have time.

took a mug with leftover coffee in it, and peed into it in the kitchen right next to me, sort of laughing.

I was just stunned.

He kept laughing and saying, I told you I really needed it, and I just stared, I think with the sheer horror on my face.

He then poured the piss out into the sink, the sink was empty, and thoroughly cleaned the mug.

I said to him not to bother because I want that cup in a bin.

He then started to get annoyed and said, don't be like that.