Lauren

He then came back and said, forget it.

I don't have time.

took a mug with leftover coffee in it, and peed into it in the kitchen right next to me, sort of laughing.

I was just stunned.

He kept laughing and saying, I told you I really needed it, and I just stared, I think with the sheer horror on my face.

He then poured the piss out into the sink, the sink was empty, and thoroughly cleaned the mug.

I said to him not to bother because I want that cup in a bin.

He then started to get annoyed and said, don't be like that.

I told you I needed it.

I said to him that by the time he came back to the kitchen, he could have slid his shoes off and had been upstairs in the bathroom.

He then said, quote, you had to ruin my lunch and probably the weekend.

Why do you always have to be such a drama queen?

You make me feel like an absolute piece of shit.

Yeah.

Yeah.

I don't know what to think.

Am I the asshole here?

He is pretty convinced that it was nothing and I've made him feel like crap about it.

Is this normal behavior?

Have I overreacted and made him feel bad for no reason?