Leah

Like I didn't know, like everyone knew because Vanessa had told her partner, I'm pretty sure probably ASAP.

And then Chris went this whole time and never even crossed his mind to tell me.

And so for me, I'm like, well, why?

Because he's he literally harped on the fact that he's such a good communicator.

He's like, I'm a great communicator.

I was like, OK, awesome.

And then, you know, he does speeches for a living.

I was like, great.

And then when it came to shove, he couldn't even just let me know what happened.

Because we weren't even dating, so I wouldn't have even been mad at the fact.

I was like, it'd just been nice of a heads up instead of feeling blindsided.

Because I thought everyone knew.

I thought all the girls knew, all the men knew.

And I was like, wow.

Not everyone.

Yeah, I know now you are.

he how do you say this he's it's more of a character flaw I would say because I can't say immaturity because I've he's had tough conversations with people you know but I don't think he's had it with women because he also led me to believe like that he dated a lot of older women and so then when I asked him he was like well technically we didn't really date we kind of just had like a thing and so I was like oh so you're not used to hard conversations in general so I think that plays a huge role.

I definitely had to set my boundaries and what I expect from a relationship because we didn't get to spend as much time as all the other couples.

We kind of were a last couple.

So we probably only got to spend maybe like six hours, you know.