Leah

And I've accepted that challenge knowing when I met Natalie, she was pretty open pretty quickly about... Which he's been through, you know, and I could have been like, that's too much for me. And I don't bag it, you know, whatever. But I, you know, I couldn't just say, well, you deal with it on your own. I don't want any part of that.

It's like, you're, if you're going to be my wife, if I'm going to be your husband, if you're going to, if we're going to be a couple, I have to do whatever I can to not be that trigger, you know, even, and I, and I have my shit, you know, I've only dated women. Right. And so women have only, you know, when it comes to people who have caused me the most emotional pain in my life, it's women.

It's like, you're, if you're going to be my wife, if I'm going to be your husband, if you're going to, if we're going to be a couple, I have to do whatever I can to not be that trigger, you know, even, and I, and I have my shit, you know, I've only dated women. Right. And so women have only, you know, when it comes to people who have caused me the most emotional pain in my life, it's women.

It's like, you're, if you're going to be my wife, if I'm going to be your husband, if you're going to, if we're going to be a couple, I have to do whatever I can to not be that trigger, you know, even, and I, and I have my shit, you know, I've only dated women. Right. And so women have only, you know, when it comes to people who have caused me the most emotional pain in my life, it's women.

Yeah. But I can't use that as an excuse, especially with my wife who pain or not, like what Natalie has experienced through men, what I've experienced is nothing compared to that.

Yeah. But I can't use that as an excuse, especially with my wife who pain or not, like what Natalie has experienced through men, what I've experienced is nothing compared to that.

Yeah. But I can't use that as an excuse, especially with my wife who pain or not, like what Natalie has experienced through men, what I've experienced is nothing compared to that.

You know, and the childhood I've had. I've been compared to what Natalie was raised in is a night and day difference. And I want you to try to focus on being her rock, even if that means you can't have her in the way that you would like to have her. Does that make sense?

You know, and the childhood I've had. I've been compared to what Natalie was raised in is a night and day difference. And I want you to try to focus on being her rock, even if that means you can't have her in the way that you would like to have her. Does that make sense?

You know, and the childhood I've had. I've been compared to what Natalie was raised in is a night and day difference. And I want you to try to focus on being her rock, even if that means you can't have her in the way that you would like to have her. Does that make sense?

I think you need to start saying no.

I think you need to start saying no.

I think you need to start saying no.

See, I think that's the part, I think... And maybe that's where I'm being twisted. Yeah, well... I don't think it's your intention.

See, I think that's the part, I think... And maybe that's where I'm being twisted. Yeah, well... I don't think it's your intention.

See, I think that's the part, I think... And maybe that's where I'm being twisted. Yeah, well... I don't think it's your intention.

No, it's just more, what I'm hearing from you underneath it all is I need to be with her and we need to be in a relationship for me to be able to show her the type of partner I can be. And I'm suggesting you don't need to be. And I'm suggesting that, well, hey, like for better or worse, you two have, well, for better, you two have a kid together.

No, it's just more, what I'm hearing from you underneath it all is I need to be with her and we need to be in a relationship for me to be able to show her the type of partner I can be. And I'm suggesting you don't need to be. And I'm suggesting that, well, hey, like for better or worse, you two have, well, for better, you two have a kid together.

No, it's just more, what I'm hearing from you underneath it all is I need to be with her and we need to be in a relationship for me to be able to show her the type of partner I can be. And I'm suggesting you don't need to be. And I'm suggesting that, well, hey, like for better or worse, you two have, well, for better, you two have a kid together.

And regardless of what happens as a romantic couple, for the next 17 years, you guys will, I guess, be in each other's life to a certain extent. And you can still be a support system. You can be an example to her. You can be a great father to your son. You can be someone she can always count on.