Leila Hormozi

So I just expect it as part of the process and I don't try to make it go away. I just try to detach from them enough to just take successful actions. And that is where I focus the most, which is like I just need to be able to detach from my thoughts enough that I can just follow the plan that I had. And that's honestly it. I don't even try to... I mean, yes, I can reframe them.

So I just expect it as part of the process and I don't try to make it go away. I just try to detach from them enough to just take successful actions. And that is where I focus the most, which is like I just need to be able to detach from my thoughts enough that I can just follow the plan that I had. And that's honestly it. I don't even try to... I mean, yes, I can reframe them.

I would say I can refute them. Sometimes I look at it almost like the thought is on trial. Like, show me the evidence in either direction. Which is like, okay, cool. Evidence that it could be true. Evidence that it could be false. But both of these things are trying to create certainty. You know what I mean? We want certainty that our negative thoughts aren't true. But what if they are?

I would say I can refute them. Sometimes I look at it almost like the thought is on trial. Like, show me the evidence in either direction. Which is like, okay, cool. Evidence that it could be true. Evidence that it could be false. But both of these things are trying to create certainty. You know what I mean? We want certainty that our negative thoughts aren't true. But what if they are?

Life, like certainty is not guaranteed. Nothing's guaranteed. And so for me, it's like, I actually have even given up trying to find the evidence for a thought being true or not. I'm just like, you have no idea. Maybe it is. And maybe the worst thing ever happens. You're not going to know unless you go forward anyways.

Life, like certainty is not guaranteed. Nothing's guaranteed. And so for me, it's like, I actually have even given up trying to find the evidence for a thought being true or not. I'm just like, you have no idea. Maybe it is. And maybe the worst thing ever happens. You're not going to know unless you go forward anyways.

Right. Like, is it true?

Right. Like, is it true?

I don't know. Maybe. But is it useful? No. Well, then I'm not going to think about it.

I don't know. Maybe. But is it useful? No. Well, then I'm not going to think about it.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Female specifically? You know, I've never identified as a female entrepreneur. I've just identified as actually a business person.

Female specifically? You know, I've never identified as a female entrepreneur. I've just identified as actually a business person.

I do, I do. Yeah, yeah. So I was going somewhere with it, don't worry.

I do, I do. Yeah, yeah. So I was going somewhere with it, don't worry.

The way I viewed it is when I say I've never identified as a female entrepreneur, it's because I don't find it useful. Because then I think of all the reasons why I should act differently than a male entrepreneur and why I should think that the rules of money and business should apply differently to me.

The way I viewed it is when I say I've never identified as a female entrepreneur, it's because I don't find it useful. Because then I think of all the reasons why I should act differently than a male entrepreneur and why I should think that the rules of money and business should apply differently to me.

And I have played by the rules that I've just seen make people successful whether they're a man or a woman. And so that's been really helpful for me. But what I think holds a lot of women back is I think that women have traditionally been conditioned by society to be valued for other things not making money. And I don't think that's bad. I also don't think it's bad if you want to make money.

And I have played by the rules that I've just seen make people successful whether they're a man or a woman. And so that's been really helpful for me. But what I think holds a lot of women back is I think that women have traditionally been conditioned by society to be valued for other things not making money. And I don't think that's bad. I also don't think it's bad if you want to make money.