Leila Hormozi
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But I do think that, like, one thing that I will never be able to rid myself of is that I am valued for also how I look. If I looked like a troll, I do not think Alex would marry me.
But I do think that, like, one thing that I will never be able to rid myself of is that I am valued for also how I look. If I looked like a troll, I do not think Alex would marry me.
I don't think he would. And that's not bad. Yeah, it's not a bad thing. Women, if you look at the most popular women in the world, they're usually very attractive. A lot of them. Women can literally gain status through just being attractive and nothing else. Right. I'm sure men can, too, but many more men are valued for money and ability to produce.
I don't think he would. And that's not bad. Yeah, it's not a bad thing. Women, if you look at the most popular women in the world, they're usually very attractive. A lot of them. Women can literally gain status through just being attractive and nothing else. Right. I'm sure men can, too, but many more men are valued for money and ability to produce.
And so I think there's first off, women have if they want to make more money and build a business, they also have something other things that take their attention. They've been conditioned to also value these things and work to make these things better in their life. And I get that.
And so I think there's first off, women have if they want to make more money and build a business, they also have something other things that take their attention. They've been conditioned to also value these things and work to make these things better in their life. And I get that.
Um, the second piece to it is, um, when it comes to what I think holds women back is the fear of being put into one of these boxes that I think like pop culture now does, right? It's either like, you're either like, uh, I don't know because I'm not as connected in pop culture, but I see it's like a lot of women that are like, I'm a single female entrepreneur, like making money on like F guys.
Um, the second piece to it is, um, when it comes to what I think holds women back is the fear of being put into one of these boxes that I think like pop culture now does, right? It's either like, you're either like, uh, I don't know because I'm not as connected in pop culture, but I see it's like a lot of women that are like, I'm a single female entrepreneur, like making money on like F guys.
Then I see like, I'm a businesswoman, I'm all about my business and I'm this and I'm that. Or then I see like, I'm a traditional wife and I have kids and I stay home. And it's like, I just say like, what if you could just say you're an and, not an or? You don't need to be this or that or that. You could be and. I love to cook for my husband.
Then I see like, I'm a businesswoman, I'm all about my business and I'm this and I'm that. Or then I see like, I'm a traditional wife and I have kids and I stay home. And it's like, I just say like, what if you could just say you're an and, not an or? You don't need to be this or that or that. You could be and. I love to cook for my husband.
I also like to run a company that's gonna be worth a billion dollars next year. Can I not make him cookies and run a billion dollar company? And I wanna do both. And I think that I used to think that I had to pick between those things, between being a good wife, between being, you know, between my health and shape and liking to do hair and makeup and between doing business.
I also like to run a company that's gonna be worth a billion dollars next year. Can I not make him cookies and run a billion dollar company? And I wanna do both. And I think that I used to think that I had to pick between those things, between being a good wife, between being, you know, between my health and shape and liking to do hair and makeup and between doing business.
And that actually, in the beginning, when I thought that I had to sacrifice being a good wife and, you know, caring about what I looked like, it made me worse at business because I was suppressing these other pieces of my life that I actually do value. And I said, why am I suppressing those things? And I said, well, because I'm afraid that men are going to judge me for it.
And that actually, in the beginning, when I thought that I had to sacrifice being a good wife and, you know, caring about what I looked like, it made me worse at business because I was suppressing these other pieces of my life that I actually do value. And I said, why am I suppressing those things? And I said, well, because I'm afraid that men are going to judge me for it.
Well then, screw it, let them judge me, and I do get judged all the time, and I'm okay with it. It's okay if people don't understand me. It's okay if they don't understand my actual capabilities, what I actually do, if they think I am all these things. I know who I am. And on a daily basis, I'm with myself at the end of the day.
Well then, screw it, let them judge me, and I do get judged all the time, and I'm okay with it. It's okay if people don't understand me. It's okay if they don't understand my actual capabilities, what I actually do, if they think I am all these things. I know who I am. And on a daily basis, I'm with myself at the end of the day.
And so as long as I'm living my life in accordance with the things I value, I think that most women just believe that they have to fit in a box of one of these things. You're either this girl, this girl, this girl, or this girl that fits in these boxes that you see on social media. It's like, you could be a little bit of all those things. It's like, who do you want to be?
And so as long as I'm living my life in accordance with the things I value, I think that most women just believe that they have to fit in a box of one of these things. You're either this girl, this girl, this girl, or this girl that fits in these boxes that you see on social media. It's like, you could be a little bit of all those things. It's like, who do you want to be?
And I think for me, I've learned I don't fit in a box and I think a lot of people think I'm one thing or another or they feel confused and that's okay.
And I think for me, I've learned I don't fit in a box and I think a lot of people think I'm one thing or another or they feel confused and that's okay.