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Lenore Skenazy

πŸ‘€ Speaker
574 total appearances

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TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

I am here to talk about parenting, which is kind of weird because if you Google America's Worst Mom, you find me there for 22 Google pages, followed by America's Worst Mother's Day Gift, which, guys, a lot of you here, we don't want an iron and lingerie is for Father's Day.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

So how do you get a name like that?

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

Well, years ago, when our younger son was nine, he started asking me and my husband if we would take him someplace he'd never been before, in New York City, where we live, and let him find his own way home by subway.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

So we talked about it, me and my husband, who you never hear of as America's worst dad.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

And we decided, sure, why not?

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

Long story short, I wrote a newspaper column, Why I Let My Nine-Year-Old Ride the Subway Alone.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

And two days later, I was on the Today Show, MSNBC, Fox News and NPR.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

Fox News and NPR.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

OK?

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

Kind of wild.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

And I realize that a lot of you would not make the same decision, obviously, but you should have seen our son.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

He came into the apartment levitating.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

He was so happy.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

So I want you to think back for just a second on something that you absolutely loved doing as a kid, maybe flashlight tag, building forts.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

And now I want you to raise your hand if your mom knew exactly where you were.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

Okay, it's an older crowd here.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

Sorry.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

It is usually the younger people who raise their hands because that's what's changed.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

In fact, that's what I wrote my book about, free-range kids.

TED Talks Daily
Why you should spend less time with your kids | Lenore Skenazy

For the last generation or two, kids have been getting so little time on their own, so little time unsupervised.