Leslie John

I said, I will never get mad at you for anything.

Never get mad at you.

If you do whatever you're gonna do, you act who you are, I feel like I know you enough now with the time that we've been dating for a while ago, I won't get mad at you.

I might get frustrated or annoyed, but I'm not gonna get mad at you, I'm not gonna yell at you, I'm never gonna raise my voice, because I'm gonna choose to accept you for who you are.

I may not like things you do, but I would choose to accept you.

and create agreements around these things.

And I only have one condition.

The condition is you cannot get mad at me if you're upset with me about something.

You have to bring me first, come to me and talk about at least one thing you appreciate about me first.

then we can talk all day long about something that's bothering you.

If something is upsetting you or bothering you that you want to talk about, I will listen to you for hours.

I will speak to you and disarm it.

But you just have to, because my whole life is going to be committed to finding ways to improve your life.

And if you come to me by one thing that you're upset about,

And you don't just acknowledge at least the good I've been doing for the last three months of like how I continue to add value and how I show up and how I'm present and how I listen and how I take us out and do experiences and provide and protect.

If you just come to me with the one thing that's bothering you and you don't acknowledge at least one good thing, then I'm going to be upset.

That's the only time I'll be angry.

And I said, can we agree on this?

She said, yeah, she didn't understand it at first.

Cause it's like, what if I just am upset about something?