Lewis Howes

So I would say, you know, don't spiritualize it and make it too ridiculous.

It's the coach.

And just get a relationship with the coach.

Let the coach get a relationship with you and just do what he tells you to do and you're going to love the results.

This, this, this, this, this is what God is saying.

You spent all of your mature life pouring into people who can't do a whole lot for you.

You spent some kind of way in your soul.

You feel like because of where you were and all these people to help you get to where.

So it's like you like you feel like you owe people to not be a mutual relationships like you feel like you so blessed and you have so much.

It's almost a survivor of guilt that now you just got to be with people who you got to pull and you got to be with people that you got to beg to and you got to be with people who you just got to bless and you may not get nothing back.

He like, no, no, no, no.

In this season, these relationships have always been there for you.

But you haven't taken advantage of them because it's like, I got to help and I got to fix and I got to be a savior complex.

I got to help you and help you and help you because somebody helped me and I wouldn't be here.

And CJ said to me, Eric, no, the only reason it worked is because you wanted it to work.

Those mentors didn't do nothing for you.

They did, but you had to want it.

You're helping people that don't even want to be helped.

They want a handout.

They don't want to be helped.