Lewis Howes

Go for LeBron.

I just saw LeBron last night, too, play, so.

Absolutely.

I go to the Olympics, that's an accomplishment.

I go to the Olympics and get a bronze, I'm like, I medaled, you know?

I'm one of the three best in the world at what I do.

And we let it dictate our happiness.

Now tell me, okay, I love this approach.

I love the philosophy and the mindset.

But for someone watching or listening who's like, okay, but I really want to accomplish some goals to feel like I'm accomplishing something because I wanted to build my... Because it's always built my confidence when I do accomplish.

But I hear you say, but if you don't accomplish this, it's going to hurt your self-esteem.

So how do we...

If someone's like, I want to write a book this year, do I set a goal to write a book or is it a journey of writing the book?

Do I create micro goals on a weekly basis and have accountability?

There's going to be deadlines.

Or how do we think about the process of completing a project, launching something we want to launch, doing our artwork, creating our music, whatever it might be.

How do we then set these things and make them happen?

So how do we, I mean, people are going to fail, but you're saying to reframe failure or to not even look at failure as an option, because if you don't set the goal, you can't fail in that sense.

Bingo.

Like a child.