Lewis Howes

Yes.

And so it's cool because they're not living flashy lives.

They're driving the older cars.

They're not taking all the trips.

But at what cost?

And so I'm a big fan of live your life how you want to live it now while preparing for the future.

And then you can change some dials on there.

You don't need to work till you're 65, but let's also not villainize work.

Because what happens is they find an encore career because someone who's making $200,000 had a lot to contribute to society.

You get bored real quick.

I'd be bored.

Exactly.

And so they find themselves with an encore career doing the thing they probably should have been doing all along, maybe even making more money.

And wow, amazing.

Exactly.

So there is a balance to be found there.

And that's the one thing I'm struggling with is how aggressive should I be?

How can I ratchet down and enjoy life more now and spend more on, you know, my wife wants to go to Disney.

My daughter's two and a half, my son's seven months.

And you're like, oh, this is for us.