Lewis Howes

I'll stick with by me to through me to help people.

There's gurus out there that'll address the other stuff.

Because they're addressing the wrong things.

They're addressing, how do you do better in by me?

And trying to do that is saying, right, if you're in by me, and Tony says this beautifully, he says, success without fulfillment is failure.

And so most people are trying to get to the top of Success Mountain by elbowing their way through the crowd.

They get to the top, they sacrifice, they miss their daughter's recital, they sacrifice their health, and they get to the top and they want to jump off because they don't like the view.

Why is that?

Because they were taught that if they succeed enough through achievement, then they'll feel happier.

And the challenge is that it doesn't.

You're running east looking for a sunset.

And what are you doing?

You're blaming your shoes.

Or if I get a better personal trainer, if I learn to run faster, or it must be the diet, let me try this.

So if I just get that edge, then I can run faster, I'll finally get my sunset running east.

And of course, it's a different paradigm.

You're not gonna do that.

So understanding fulfillment, it's what I call the curse of the white rabbit.

Sounds a little Hollywood for where we are here.

But I'll explain it.