Lewis Howes

And the public speaking thing, you know, I'm going to Mexico next week to get a big paycheck to speak.

And I would have never been able to do this had I not had that time to practice every single week.

Yeah, I kept going.

Right.

If someone's in a... You mentioned kind of winning a conversation or trying to look right in a conversation.

What's the best way super communicators can navigate or influence or resolve the conflict if it's just not going well?

Maybe at a family...

you know, holiday thing or a relationship or whatever it might be, where it's just, oh, this is not going well.

That's cool.

What if you know the person's wrong?

You're like, oh man, this person's just so emotionally irrational that they're not...

listening to me also my side like what if you just know like now that they're wrong yeah maybe they're not but you just feel gosh whatever they're saying they're just belief is just not the right belief so there's been a there's been a ton of research on this because of covid so so when um when the covid vaccine rolled out there was a lot of people who were anti-vaccine vaccine

They didn't say, you're wrong, you're right, or whatever it is.

Instead of at odds with each other.

Right.

They say like marriage conflict or relationship conflict that it's never you versus the person.

It's you both versus the problem.

That's exactly right.

It's approaching it, okay, the problem is this.

How can we solve the problem together?