Lex Fridman

But I think that also applies to, because you mentioned submissive, that's more straightforward to understand.

I think that also applies to dominant.

Because like,

Yeah, you don't have to walk on eggshells.

It's the clarity of it.

That was really interesting.

Having read that from you, that really made me think that there is a deep truth to that, to being true to whatever the sexual fantasy is.

It's not just the fantasy itself that's appealing.

It's the being free in some sense.

So you've, you know, for researching the bi book, the bisexuality book, what have you learned about sexuality in general, human nature kind of sexuality and how it's practiced in terms of different communities?

And I'm sure there's like subcultures and stuff.

Yeah.

What have you learned?

You came out as bisexual, by the way, yeah.

Did you hear from a bunch of people after Making Evil After Evil, the book I'm mentioning, and coming out in that book, and then writing the bi book that are bisexual?

And maybe what are some stories?

I'm sure, because I haven't seen much material on it as you spoke to, so I'm sure they felt lonely without a community, right?

Nice.

What advice would you give to young people, just people in general that are trying to figure out their sexuality or how to speak about their sexuality?

A bit of a tricky question, but what are the pros and cons of coming out publicly as a non-standard sexuality?