Lindsay Roth
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And I know this is hard, but she then goes to lean into this talk about it makes it better and talk about it often.
And I know this is hard, but she then goes to lean into this talk about it makes it better and talk about it often.
And I know this is hard, but she then goes to lean into this talk about it makes it better and talk about it often.
So first of all, I think when you do something like the sex questions or you have your sexual talk or you start bringing things up, I actually think it's important to not do it in the bedroom. I think it's important to normalize talking about things like sex and intimacy.
So first of all, I think when you do something like the sex questions or you have your sexual talk or you start bringing things up, I actually think it's important to not do it in the bedroom. I think it's important to normalize talking about things like sex and intimacy.
So first of all, I think when you do something like the sex questions or you have your sexual talk or you start bringing things up, I actually think it's important to not do it in the bedroom. I think it's important to normalize talking about things like sex and intimacy.
And it's like, you know, when you have kids and you only read to them before bed, so they end up thinking that reading is only a bedtime thing. So reading during the day is very different, right? Sex is not only in the bedroom. Intimacy is not only in the bedroom. So I say have these conversations, exactly what you're saying, over wine, having a walk.
And it's like, you know, when you have kids and you only read to them before bed, so they end up thinking that reading is only a bedtime thing. So reading during the day is very different, right? Sex is not only in the bedroom. Intimacy is not only in the bedroom. So I say have these conversations, exactly what you're saying, over wine, having a walk.
And it's like, you know, when you have kids and you only read to them before bed, so they end up thinking that reading is only a bedtime thing. So reading during the day is very different, right? Sex is not only in the bedroom. Intimacy is not only in the bedroom. So I say have these conversations, exactly what you're saying, over wine, having a walk.
But before you get to my questions, I think it's important to understand what you like, what you don't like. Ask yourself some of these questions. Where am I at with my sexual health right now? Are there things I want to be doing? Are there things that make me uncomfortable? Right? So start with yourself. with these questions.
But before you get to my questions, I think it's important to understand what you like, what you don't like. Ask yourself some of these questions. Where am I at with my sexual health right now? Are there things I want to be doing? Are there things that make me uncomfortable? Right? So start with yourself. with these questions.
But before you get to my questions, I think it's important to understand what you like, what you don't like. Ask yourself some of these questions. Where am I at with my sexual health right now? Are there things I want to be doing? Are there things that make me uncomfortable? Right? So start with yourself. with these questions.
So here's one that seems a bit silly to ask, but is very important to ask. Do we have good sex? And is there anything you'd like me to do differently? I think people need to understand that when your partner brings up something sexual or in the bedroom, it's not always because something's wrong or something's bad, but it might be because they want to try something new or they feel safe with you.
So here's one that seems a bit silly to ask, but is very important to ask. Do we have good sex? And is there anything you'd like me to do differently? I think people need to understand that when your partner brings up something sexual or in the bedroom, it's not always because something's wrong or something's bad, but it might be because they want to try something new or they feel safe with you.
So here's one that seems a bit silly to ask, but is very important to ask. Do we have good sex? And is there anything you'd like me to do differently? I think people need to understand that when your partner brings up something sexual or in the bedroom, it's not always because something's wrong or something's bad, but it might be because they want to try something new or they feel safe with you.
So they want to explore other areas, right?
So they want to explore other areas, right?
So they want to explore other areas, right?
Well, so a lot of times couples get into a rut and they just think that we need to have sex and they don't take part into, is there a candle that's lit before? Does sex start with dinner? Does it start with what we're wearing before bed or not? And say things to your partner like, I really like when we do this. Could we try this? You can ease into these conversations.
Well, so a lot of times couples get into a rut and they just think that we need to have sex and they don't take part into, is there a candle that's lit before? Does sex start with dinner? Does it start with what we're wearing before bed or not? And say things to your partner like, I really like when we do this. Could we try this? You can ease into these conversations.