Lindsay Roth

Well, so a lot of times couples get into a rut and they just think that we need to have sex and they don't take part into, is there a candle that's lit before? Does sex start with dinner? Does it start with what we're wearing before bed or not? And say things to your partner like, I really like when we do this. Could we try this? You can ease into these conversations.

You don't have to hit it hard like we need to have a sexual state of the union. You can get there. But if it's something that's uncomfortable with you, start easy. How do you show love to others? How do you like when love is shown to you? Do you like when I touch you there? Things like that are easy ways into this. And I often find that there's one person who initiates more than the other person.

You don't have to hit it hard like we need to have a sexual state of the union. You can get there. But if it's something that's uncomfortable with you, start easy. How do you show love to others? How do you like when love is shown to you? Do you like when I touch you there? Things like that are easy ways into this. And I often find that there's one person who initiates more than the other person.

You don't have to hit it hard like we need to have a sexual state of the union. You can get there. But if it's something that's uncomfortable with you, start easy. How do you show love to others? How do you like when love is shown to you? Do you like when I touch you there? Things like that are easy ways into this. And I often find that there's one person who initiates more than the other person.

That's an easy pattern to fall into. So if you're the one that's not initiating, think about why you're not initiating. Are you less interested in sex at the moment? If so, explain to your partner why, because that partner might be feeling hurt that they initiate so much.

That's an easy pattern to fall into. So if you're the one that's not initiating, think about why you're not initiating. Are you less interested in sex at the moment? If so, explain to your partner why, because that partner might be feeling hurt that they initiate so much.

That's an easy pattern to fall into. So if you're the one that's not initiating, think about why you're not initiating. Are you less interested in sex at the moment? If so, explain to your partner why, because that partner might be feeling hurt that they initiate so much.

If you're the one that's initiating and you've gotten into that pattern, tell your partner that you'd like them to initiate more. Hey, I love it when you did this. Can you try and do that again? That makes me feel really good.

If you're the one that's initiating and you've gotten into that pattern, tell your partner that you'd like them to initiate more. Hey, I love it when you did this. Can you try and do that again? That makes me feel really good.

If you're the one that's initiating and you've gotten into that pattern, tell your partner that you'd like them to initiate more. Hey, I love it when you did this. Can you try and do that again? That makes me feel really good.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

Yeah, and I think not everyone has the same sex drive at the same time.

Yeah, and I think not everyone has the same sex drive at the same time.

Yeah, and I think not everyone has the same sex drive at the same time.

Right, right. It's definitely safe to say that most people don't. And there is a give and take in life in everything. And I always find that when you schedule, to go back to when you schedule sex, there are a lot of times where you don't feel like doing it before. And then you go through it and you do it and you think, God, that was so much better than I thought it would be.

Right, right. It's definitely safe to say that most people don't. And there is a give and take in life in everything. And I always find that when you schedule, to go back to when you schedule sex, there are a lot of times where you don't feel like doing it before. And then you go through it and you do it and you think, God, that was so much better than I thought it would be.

Right, right. It's definitely safe to say that most people don't. And there is a give and take in life in everything. And I always find that when you schedule, to go back to when you schedule sex, there are a lot of times where you don't feel like doing it before. And then you go through it and you do it and you think, God, that was so much better than I thought it would be.

And then you feel so much more connected to your partner. right?