Lisa Bilyeu

And even the way he told me, so he dumps me first.

He then drops this bomb.

And guess what I do?

So he makes me needy.

I'm like, oh, it's fine.

I then am desperate to get back with him.

I just want you back.

So the manipulative tactic that was played in the strategy to keep me, even though he cheated on me, you do that enough.

He then drops this bomb.

And guess what I do?

I'm like, oh, it's fine.

I just want you back.

So the manipulative tactic that was played in the strategy to keep me, even though he cheated on me, you do that enough.

I was with him for almost four years.

So you can imagine by the end how I felt about myself, how I saw myself, my insecurities, my unworthiness.

I was with him for almost four years.

So you can imagine by the end how I felt about myself, how I saw myself, my insecurities, my unworthiness.

And so once I left him, it took me a good year to assess, rebuild my confidence so that when I met someone like Tom, I was very confident in laying out my ground rules and my non-negotiables.

And so once I left him, it took me a good year to assess, rebuild my confidence so that when I met someone like Tom, I was very confident in laying out my ground rules and my non-negotiables.

If someone came to me and said the exact words that you just said to me, my response is you're right.